I am in a maze in my own mind. My husband and I moved up north about 18 months ago. I hate where we live and wish we never moved. We have a 3 year old daughter. My husband works FIFO. I am a stay at home mum. My husband and I have problems that pretty much increased when I was pregnant (horrendous fights, no intimacy) the fights are minimal now (I feel very attacked when I bring up issues, so I avoid communicating about my feelings) the intimacy is pretty much gone. We live together like mates. It’s all bearable because he’s gone every other week. But it doesn’t resolve our problems. Now I have mentioned to him that I would love to move back to where we lived before. It’s a hard no from him. Even though he knows how unhappy I am where we are now. He has told me, that if I am not happy I can move back with our daughter. It seems to be a way out for me. But I feel so guilty even thinking about leaving because of our little girl. She loves him so much. As we’d be moving states she would barely see him. I am worried that if we stay, things will never change between us, so I would basically stay for my daughter. I just feel that my husband and I are not compatible anymore, he is tough and can be quite aggressive yet I am very sensitive and emotional. It’s been mentioned by him that I am ungrateful as I have everything yet I can’t be happy. Yet I feel that happiness is not materialistic things. Also the fact that I have been so financially dependent on him makes it all so much more difficult. What do I do? I have tried for us to go into therapy to see if we can learn to communicate better but he feels it’s just a waste of money. What do I do? Should I stay? Or should I go? Am I wrong? Should I just be happy with my life?
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