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November 29, 2019

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We constantly talk about ‘school readiness’ but what does it actually mean?

With the school year drawing to a close, and a new class of kids preparing to start school in 2020, the debate about when to send your child to school is on again. There’s an argument for every side. If you send them early, you’ll be extending them, if you send them later, you give them a chance to gain confidence first. It seems you just can’t win. So when is the right time to send your child to school and is it the same for everybody?

An Overwhelming Time

Starting primary school is an overwhelming time for any child, and for parents too it can be a difficult transition. ‘School readiness’ is not about academic ability necessarily, but refers instead to the knowledge, skills and behaviours children need to be able to adjust to the demands of the school environment.
Children who are school ready are:

  • Able to get along with other children
  • Able to follow instructions and directions from teachers
  • Able to cope with minimal adult contact in a large group
  • Able to speak clearly and communicate their needs
  • Able to demonstrate fine and gross motor skills like running, jumping, holding a pencil etc.
  • Able to independently go to the toilet, carry their bag and manage their belongings

More Than Just A Number

For kids born at the very start or end of the calendar year, the options are a little less flexible. If you turn 5 in December, chances are you’ll be starting school in February bang on schedule. For those born in the middle of the year however, they can start school at 4 1/2, 5/12 and in the case of some kids, 6 years of age. It really comes down to the judgement of parents.

Can you see your child heading off to school in a uniform, with a school bag and homework and responsibilities? If the answer is no, and they’re not quite at school age yet, perhaps it’s worth considering another year at pre-school to give them the best chance of success.

How did you know when it was time to send your children to school? Tell us in the comments.

 

 

  • I think as parents you follow your instincts.

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  • I think you as a parent know when your child is ready to start school. Whether 4 or 6 if they can count have an interest in learning spelling are toilet trained know the basics to survive a school day. You will know when they are

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  • i just think you know – if they are showing strong signs of independence and are willing to be adventuring on their own with out you then your good to send them to school, if they are showing an interest and are bored of being a home then it’s time to broaden their minds and encourage their learning.

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  • my daughter started day care when she turn 3 she went for 3 days a week, She went there for 1 year then we took a break and send her to pre primary after she turn 5 and actually said she want to go to school.

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  • Sending kids who are born early to mid year in the year they turn 6 rather than when they are turning 5 is usually the recommendation. Obviously each child is different but the extra time at preschool is beneficial for the majority. It is a challenge though for many people who just can’t afford the costs of daycare or preschool. There needs to be more subsidies So kids get the best start to education.

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  • Far too many mums I know send there kids when their not ready because their worried about being judged by other mums or their kid being labelled……. all it does is hurt the kid as I’ve watched them struggle and try to keep up and adapt to an environment their not ready for.

    Don’t let pride get in the way of making the right decision for your child!!!

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  • This is really great advice

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  • I’m relieved my son starts school a little later (born last half of the year) but daycare fees are killing me!!

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  • Im past having to worry about this anymore

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  • Thanks for the read.

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  • All my girls went to school when they were 4 turning 5 at the beginning of the year. They were ready!

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  • So glad I don’t have to think about this anymore.

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  • Glad my Bub is born in June and I don’t have to make that decision

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  • A big step for kiddies and parents

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  • Great article.My little girl surprised me when she first attended to the kinder.I never expected she would be comfortable with kinder environment.She is very shy never perform or sing in front of strangers and hard to talk to strangers.But it took me tears when i first saw she was singing and dancing with other kids on the first day.

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  • My first born was ready for school
    1 year before she was allowed to go. We tried to get her into 3 year old preschool but all all spots were taken.

    My second is the born at the start of the year and will most likely be one the of the kids who starts school at a later age

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  • Good to know

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  • Excellent advice and something to think about in the years to come

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  • great article

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  • Just go with your gut, every child is different.

    My 6 year old has Down Syndrome and is NOT able to follow other then 1step instructions and directions from teachers, is NOT able to cope with minimal adult contact in a large group, is NOT able to speak clearly and communicate her needs, is NOT able to demonstrate fine and gross motor skills like running, jumping, holding a pencil etc., is NOT able to independently go to the toilet, carry her bag and manage her belongings, and yes she has friends but sometimes she gets frustrated and shows escalating behaviour and throws a punch or kicks another student.

    Does that mean she is not ready or shouldn’t go to school ? Not at all !

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