I feel for the Father as he not only has his disruptive parents In-laws to cope with but also two young adults to cope with. I would start leaving brochures around of over 50’s villages and start talking about all the activities they have there. Outings, Bowling, Swimming Craft groups etc, to see if they take the hint. If that does not work he may have to use the upfront way and tell them it is not working out with them all living together as it is disrupting the children.

What the heck!! These grandparents need to learn some respect!! Poor dad & kids.

They should be more respectful around children 100% and they are being childish

That would scare me too. Sounds too crowded for them… get them out of there

I think they need there own space there own place as they aren’t getting as much alone time as they need. They must think it’s better to do it during the day when the house is noisy compared to it quiet at night. But regardless there’s plenty of accommodation they’d feel more comfortable in especially if you don’t like them. Circumstances change and your life and your kids needs to be priority living elsewhere is no big deal. There is alot of help for old people accommodation and cooked meals wise. They would also make new friends and look forward to visits.

Oh what a horrible dilemma! Love that your in-laws enjoy a great sex life which your children should realise is OK, and perhaps further explanations from you might help. However, if it is really causing a problem then maybe you should help them get another place to live as at their age they probably would find it hard to pay for.

Feel really bad for this Father. What a horrible experience. Not fair on the kids and to be in the predicament cause of the late wife, must be a heartbreaking feeling. Hope things get better for this Father.

100000% doing the right thing by moving the bedrooms, so so so not ok that they aren’t being discrete.

Given they seem to be very disruptive in multiple ways, I’d make them move out altogether, regardless of his late wife’s wishes.

Sorry, but part of me wants to
Say “Way to
Go Grandpa”!!! Good on them for having a healthy sex life in their 70s.
But seriously, they need to get a room
… just not in your house!

Not tricky at all! They are being completely disrespectful. I’m sorry about his late wife but as much as her last wishes were for them to be cared for, if they aren’t going to respect him and his family and aren’t willing to work with him to find another solution then sorry they need to go.

Awkward. They in-laws should definitely be a bit more cooperative.