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“Yuck, I don’t like it!”… the catch phrase of a fussy eater

But given that 94.4% of Australian adults are not consuming the recommended amount of fruit and vegetables each day, I have a sneaking suspicion that it is not only children who push their plate away at the sight of Brussel sprouts.

Parents Need To Be Role Models

Parents are significant role models in the development of children’s eating habits as well as largely responsible for the foods purchased, prepared and provided to children. Given this, it is particularly concerning that 22% of parents are self-confessed ‘fussy eaters,’ and it seems no coincidence that 78% of children 4-8 years and 95% of teenagers 14 -16 years, similarly to their parents, fail to consume the recommended amount of vegetables each day.

Of course, there are many factors which influence eating behaviours and some degree of “fussiness” in young children is normal and to be expected.

Fussiness Starts Early

From around 12 months of age, as a child begins to assert their independence, playtime takes priority and food refusal, preferences, pickiness, and general uncooperativeness at meal times, is a common problem. On occasions, feeding difficulties and fussy eating behaviours are underpinned by medical or developmental issues, in which case professional intervention should be sought. Under normal circumstances, however, parents who are fussy eaters create the perfect environment to promote ‘fussiness’ and typically provide a diet with limited variety and limited opportunities for children to explore new and different foods.

Enjoying a wide variety of foods every day is important as it ensures a broad scope of nutrients within the diet which are essential for good health, growth and development. Regular and sufficient consumption of fruits and vegetables is extremely important, with 2% of all deaths in 2003 directly attributed to insufficient fruit and vegetable intakes.

Managing fussy eating

It is going to come as no surprise that my first and foremost strategy to assist children overcome ‘fussiness’ is to role model positive, healthy eating behaviours –

Eat and enjoy (or at least pretend to) foods from each of the five food groups (grains and cereals; fruit; vegetables; milks, cheese, yoghurts and alternatives; meats, nuts, eggs, and legumes), every day.

Be excited and enthusiastic to try new foods and different recipes.

Try setting yourself a goal to trying one new fruit or vegetable a week and allow children to be involved in choosing which ones to try.

Remember to buy in season (these will be the cheapest) and always choose Australian grown where possible.

Encouraging children to be involved in preparing foods, not only introduces important lifelong skills, but also allows children to become familiar with the texture and smells of new and different foods before they are expected to eat them.

From about 2 years of age children can be involved in a variety of age-appropriate cooking activities which can assist overcome fussy eating behaviours whilst also being a lot of fun. It is important to have age appropriate expectation of your child (as detailed in My Kitchen Milestones) and be prepared for a messy. If spending the afternoon cleaning the kitchen isn’t your idea of fun, try taking your cooking activity outside.

If you’re stuck for ideas of what to make with your budding little chefs, head over to The Kids Menu and download the free e-book ‘14 Healthy Kids Recipes’ which contains simple, fun recipes to engage children in the joy of cooking and healthy eating – it might even inspire a few fussy parents too.

  • Thank you for a great article. My kids are pretty good but they definitely have their fussy days

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  • This is a great article. My daughter will eat anything, im very lucky.

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  • My kids will anything on a stick (i.e. on skewers like a kebab) – its amazing what you can put on a stick!

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  • fussy kids really bug me, if you don’t make a big deal out of what they eat and you’re modelling good food behaviour it shouldn’t even cross their mind to only eat minute steak etc! some of the fussy bits I’ve come across are ridiculous!


    • I totally agree earthly, some just put too much attention into getting them to eat that certain thing they get more anxious about it and ultimately refuse to eat it.

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  • when my boys were growing up I had to crumb everything.
    If they asked what was it I always answered “chicken”

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  • My 4 year old is a fussy eater but my 17 month old twins love their food

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  • Thanks for the tips

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  • Useful tips appreciated

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  • My son will eat everything put in front of him except raw tomato. Because he was never allowed to be fussy. The rules are simple. You will eat what’s put in front of you, especially when we go out, if you don’t like something eat it first and save the stuff you like for last!

    No ifs no buts.

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  • Certainly a common problem for most parents, dinnertime is definitely a battle in our household.

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  • Little miss is months and and is slowly getting more and more for brekki she eats about 3-5 fruits and loves all fruit and if she does not like some thing we encourage her to eat it over a few meals 🙂 but this is a good read

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  • nice things to know.thank you.

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  • Useful and easy to follow tips

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  • Great ideas Thankyou

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  • We have vegies all the time at home but my dauhgter still wont try different vegies if she think she doesn’t like them.

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  • Both my children hate all vegetables and are fussy eaters. They do like fruit though. We have tried everything to get them to eat different things to no avail.

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  • my dd has jst been going through a stage of not eating her veggies after being fantastic since birth. I realise its a stage and always show her im eating them and she may bite it but throw / spit it out. at least she is trying and i will continue to encourage. in saying that it is disheartening as a fulltime working mum and dad to cook a special meal and they wont have any of it.

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  • I too am lucky my three children love fruit and eat all their vegetables and are happy to eat salad I am not saying that they all like the same ones though but as whole we have never had any trouble and we to have sometimes food in the cupboard that they know is only for certain occasions. I feel that Nikki’s advise is right and having meal times together and eating the same meal as your children helps instead of different meal times for adults and children and different meals for different family members is only making more work for yourself.

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  • I didn’t realise how fussy I was until I met my now husband and spent time with his family. They ate such a huge variety of vegetables that Id never tried before. Now that I am running my own household I’m very conscious of serving a variety of vegetables each evening. I now can see that my mum is actually a fussy eater and didn’t feed us foods that she didn’t like.

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  • I was a fussy eater. We try and etach my child ot eat anything we give him, but like most kids, unless its smells and looks amazing, he wont try it

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