Should You Consider An Alternative School?

Switching to an alternative school is a choice many parents are making but how do you know if they are right for your child?

A concerned mum has taken to Mumsnet to ask if she should consider sending her son to an alternative school. The mum says that her son is due to start primary school in the next couple of years but has a number of additional needs that she is concerned won’t be met in a formal school setting.

“(My son) is 3.5 years old. Diagnosed with ASD in December. He is completely non-verbal, but more frustratingly doesn’t seem to have basic levels of understanding,” she wrote.

“Not toilet trained and I can’t see it happening anytime soon, again not really talking related but more understanding.”

The mum went on to acknowledge that while she wants to choose a school environment that caters to her son’s additional needs, she is concerned about him missing some important experiences.

“I’m just wondering how you know a special school is really right for them?” she asked.

“Sometimes I wonder will (he) not benefit more from being around just average, school children in a mainstream setting? Like the real world has most of and expects you to conform to? Or will a special school be better really?”

While there are a number of schools specifically designed to support the diverse physical and emotional needs of their students, it appears that it’s not just children with additional needs whose parents are considering alternative educational settings. A growing number of parents are opting to send their children to a range of independent alternative schools, offering alternative learning methods outside of the structured school system.

A paper from the Australian Association for Research in Education suggests that alternative schools can offer a host of benefits for students who require a more personalised learning experience.

“Too-often alternative schools are pushed to the margins of our education systems. However, research shows that they can do much to re-engage those young people who have dropped out or disengaged from their education,” Professor Stewart Riddle said.

“Young people thrive when presented with the opportunity to engage in meaningful and productive work; schooling is no different. As long as we try to treat mass schooling with a cookie-cutter approach, we are going to continue to see young people disengaging and becoming disaffected with schooling.”

Would you consider sending your child to an alternative school? Do they already attend one? SHARE your experience in the comments!

43 Comments

- - BellaB said
  - 30 Sep 2021
    3:58 pm
Sometimes home schooling feels like an experiment in alternate schooling that we’re all forced to take part in.

- - Ellen said
  - 01 Sep 2021
    7:43 am
Especially for a child with additional needs, I think it’s important to choose a school very carefully. I think it’s wise to visit numerous schools in your area’s and weigth the pros and cons. Mainstream schools should make reasonable adjustments and the law encourages all kids to have access to mainstream school. However there’s still a lot of difference how schools support kids with additional needs and may need fighting and advocating for your child.

- - ~Loui~ said
  - 01 Sep 2021
    12:22 am
One of my children goes to a flexible school. It is wonderful. She didn’t fit in with mainstream and refused to go. She is thriving and loving her new school 🙂

- - mom133944 said
  - 28 Aug 2021
    11:37 am
Interesting article. I think this is a choice you make on what is convenient to you and based on what suits your child best.

- - mom462038 said
  - 16 Aug 2021
    4:08 pm
I grew up rurally, there was 1 local school, we had no choice. It was the same for my kids. If they wanted to go to a different school, it meant a bus trip of over and hour, leaving home by 6am and getting home after 6pm. No one was keen for that

- - Ellen said
  - 01 Aug 2021
    4:50 am
I found this article a good read; https://research.qut.edu.au/c4ie/2020/06/29/why-are-special-schools-still-on-the-menu/

- - LCotte60 said
  - 31 Jul 2021
    3:41 pm
Picking a school for your child is always a hard decisions to make. I personally wouldn’t send my child to an alternative school, but thats just me. I’m sure they are perfect for some kids and parents. I did have a friend who sent her child to one and ended up pulling them out. It just wasn’t right for their child.

- - HelenP5 said
  - 25 Jul 2021
    2:52 pm
I wish I knew about these schools when my son was younger.
- mom478886 replied
  
  29 Jul 2021 , 11:49 am
  They do seem to be multiplying and giving people more choice these days
- - mom478886 said
  - 01 Jul 2021
    5:33 am
I want to send my son to a Steiner school, but there aren’t any local to us. Contemplating moving to make it happen because I love the philosophy behind their approach to education.
- Ellen replied
  
  01 Sep 2021 , 4:29 am
  Yes, I believe there are only between 40 and 50 Steiner schools in Australia. Did you end up moving for this ?
- - snazzy007 said
  - 30 Jun 2021
    3:50 pm
I feel you will know if a school is a right fit for you and it definitely should be all about the child

- - mom103778 said
  - 25 Jun 2021
    12:16 pm
We can give you all the advice in the world but ultimately you are the only one that can decide and knows your child the best. I had a daughter with mild Cerebral Palsy and I sent her to mainstream schooling for the first 3 years and then put her in a Catholic School which seemed to help her better. i understand the tough choice you need to make. You say your child is non verbal and not toilet trained which would make it so much harder in mainstream schooling then a special school. Tough decision..

- - Ellen said
  - 19 Jun 2021
    6:22 am
We have 2 kids with special needs. My youngest went for half a year to a support class, then we decided for her to go to fully mainstream, which I don’t regret
- Ellen replied
  
  20 Jun 2021 , 4:13 am
  Btw, she does have an Individual Learning Plan and 1 on 1 support at school.
- - littlehandsofmine said
  - 02 Jun 2021
    11:11 pm
This is interesting.

- - Sotomumof3 said
  - 31 May 2021
    8:43 pm
My son is 9, and I am
Considering changing. He is not getting the educational support the needs, however my 6 year old son is thriving at the same school. It’s a hard one

- - mom7108 said
  - 27 May 2021
    4:28 pm
Structured and supportive mainstream school is my choice

- - mumof3 said
  - 21 May 2021
    8:07 pm
This is so hard!!! I would probably try send my child to a regular school first and see how they went. If I didn’t see any progress I would probably reconsider and chance schools.

- - mom462805 said
  - 17 May 2021
    11:45 pm
My grandson had special needs, we tried mainstream government school, then a private Anglican school, the Anglican school was fine till he hit high school then it was all about the money. He now goes to an alternative school which is working for him. You just have to go with what you thin k is right for your child.

- - becstalou said
  - 14 May 2021
    2:01 pm
All these decisions are so hard, it’s hard without experience to know what the right decision is.

- - mom467577 said
  - 02 May 2021
    2:06 pm
Mine is only 7 months so still a long way off but depending on her personality and interests I would consider sending her to an alternative school if I felt that would meet her needs best.

- - Mrs.twinmama said
  - 01 May 2021
    7:56 am
My kids are only 2.5 so it’s hard to know but I would be open to it