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Most of us fall prey to feeling a little low at times and it can often be difficult to get yourself out of that funk. Here are a few tips to help you boost your self-esteem and feel wonderful.

1. Try a workout
Not only do we all tend to feel virtuous after a workout, exercise releases endorphins that make you feel great. Put on your prettiest fitness gear and either get to the gym, go for a run or try something like a Burlesque Dolls workout.

2. Pamper yourself
Treat yourself and head to a salon or spa for some pampering. You might go and get your hair done, or perhaps you’re in need of a manicure. Even something as small as getting a file and paint on your nails can make you feel so much better about yourself.

If your self-esteem is low before a big event or a night out, let a professional make up artist perfect your look for the evening.

3. Dress up
It doesn’t matter if you don’t have anywhere to go. Put on your best clothes, highest heels and take your time on your hair and make up. Generally, when our self-esteem has taken a dip we get lazy when all it really takes is a bit of effort to make us feel good again.

It’s fine to trot around your house in your heels but even if you don’t feel like going out, call some of the people you are closest to and go for a quiet drink or dinner. It’ll take your mind off how you are feeling and you get to spend time with the people you love.

4. See some friends
Don’t just choose any friends but go out with the ones who make you feel best about yourself. It doesn’t matter what you do, whether it’s staying in with them and watching TV or going out on the town. By the end of your time with them you’ll be back to your usual self.

5. Do something that scares you
It might be leaving the house without make up, it might be trying roller derby (check out rollerderbyau.net for details) for the first time, or it might be attending a new fitness class on your own. These are all things that are only really scary because we build them up in our minds. Get out there and do it and you’ll feel amazing once you’ve conquered that fear.

6. Be positive
Write down everything negative you’re feeling to get it out of your system. Then spend some time thinking about and writing down positive things. Many of us spend too much time dwelling on the bad things. For example, it’s easy to get stressed if you hit every red light on the way home from work. But do you ever celebrate those times when you hit every green light on a journey?

Thinking positively can really help you to start being more positive in general and this can do wonders for your self-esteem.

  • A very valuable article with some great suggestions. I always think roller derby looks like so much fun, but I’m not sure I would be game to try it

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  • Great article and loved reading this and always remember to take time for yourself.

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  • Awww love this article. Best part nothing is not doable. Thankyou for posting

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  • Some really great suggestions there. I find just getting off my bum and achieving something, ANYTHING can make me feel a whole lot better about myself. Sometimes something as simple (or not simple) as getting to the bottom of the dirty laundry pile can help. Bonus points if I can make it to the bottom of the dirty laundry AND the clean laundry piles on the same day. On those days we dance. We dance the happiest of happy dances and we feel even better.

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  • No. 1 is my fall back, works for everything. Except fatigue.

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  • I agree with thinking positive thoughts. My Mum was a great believer in that and I guess i follow in her footsteps. Negative thoughts drag you down.

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  • Thanks for the great advice. I’m going to bookmark this article so I can read it again when I need it most.

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  • a very interesting read and one I should take not of

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  • taking some time to take care of yourself can work wonders

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  • working out makes you feel good

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  • Interesting – do something that scares you 🙂 This would be great ways.

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  • thank you I will be putting them into practice

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  • what a great read. thanks for sharing

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  • as Someone who suffers from anxiety conquering fears and doing something that scares me is the biggest self esteem boost

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  • Thankyou for the tips

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  • just getting a hair cut gives me a boost

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  • a work out and a night out usually work for me

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  • I really enjoyed reading this, thanks for sharing.

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  • Sometimes doing things is easier said than done though. I find the hardest time of the day for me with motivation is first thing in the morning, and when I’m feeling really low, I cut myself off from the world as much as I can.

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  • Making time for oneself if very important when trying to boost one’s self-esteem. It is true that if one dresses up, takes time out with friends and overall, has a positive frame of mind then they will be able to feel alot better about themselves.

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