30 days no contact - Real Mum story on MoM

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So my partner left me with his baby son I have read so many things on how to get your ex back even if they are with someone new I have gone 30 days without contacting him and now he has contacted me not about our child about us wants to talk about us I said there is no us your with someone else he says hes not happy everything reminds him of me and our child and yet he is still with this other woman I told him please do not contact me again until she is gone so I have got to 30 days and now im going for another as much as im hurting I cannot live with what he has done and want nothing to do with him until this woman has completely gone out our lives and we see a concilor. Im not sure if he is just waiting until I get over how hurt iam or if he is going to leave her like he says but at the end of the day it doesn’t matter I wont fight another woman for this man I loved so deeply im holding my head up and walking away he can either follow and work with m to fix our lives or ill just get over it and that will be that no matter what he sys hes not standing at my door.

Posted anonymously, 14th August 2015

8 Comments

- - mom81879 said
  - 20 Sep 2015
    1:36 pm
What an excellent outlook on this situation. Infidelity is an incredibly hard thing to move past. Not sure you 2 would work even if other woman disappeared

- - mom94125 said
  - 23 Aug 2015
    5:45 pm
good on ya! you deserve better hon!

- - rebekah.bone said
  - 17 Aug 2015
    9:26 pm
I wouldn’t even give him that chance, he decided to leave for that other woman, he hasn’t worried about his own child.
But do whatever you feel is best for your child and yourself
Hope all is well.

- - mom93821 said
  - 17 Aug 2015
    6:37 am
Stay strong and go the distance and do what is right for you and your son.

- - mum4107 said
  - 15 Aug 2015
    8:38 pm
Good for you. You are amazing. Keep being strong, you can do it

- - mom56312 said
  - 15 Aug 2015
    5:14 pm
Stay strong you have done amazing so far been a single mum. Good to hear you are putting your and the babies wellbeing first. You are going about it the right way. Take care xx.

- - ashblonde said
  - 15 Aug 2015
    3:07 pm
If he really wants to be with you he will have to win your trust again & a counsellor would be a good start.

- - mom93821 said
  - 15 Aug 2015
    6:53 am
Good on you – looking after yourself and your son is the most important priority.