I certainly hope that you are able to move forward with your life without this person causing to much grief. If you do see this person in public take a deep breath, hold your head high and be polite if you happen to be close enough that verbal contact might occur. It is tough when we face situations like these.

well try to move forward with your life and hopefully you can find great new friends

ah forget it. you can’t stop people from saying what they want to say but people who know you, will know the truth

I think it has a lot to do with what people expect and need from a friendship. It sounds like your former friend needed more from you than you did her. It doesn’t justify her response though.

I had a friend like this, I ignored it for a while until the stories got too upsetting and really mean. I ended up confronting the person in front of a few people and they admitted it was all lies

I think it can be difficult when you don’t share the same expectations of a friendship. this is a really difficult situation and I can only hope that people who know you well know she is not telling the truth.

I’m sorry you are going through this. I hope it improves