Not like this.. - Real Mum story on MoM

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So I got engaged years ago, fell pregnant after that, then my fioncè turned into a different person, it wasn’t nice. He used ice a lot and would always yell at me, even threatened me. So I got an IVO.. This is 3 years ago and IVO has run out. He made all the promises to me- told me everything I wanted to hear and none of it worked out. I never pictured my life this way and god it hurts so much. Especially when I found out while he was trying to get back together with me he was seeing someone else at the same time. Now he makes me sick to my stomach and am having a lot of trouble getting over everything he has done. I don’t even want him around our daughter. It’s always on my mind driving me crazy, getting upset.. I need to be stronger for my daughter but sometimes it doesn’t feel possible.
Sad….

Posted anonymously, 6th September 2015

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- - mom94125 said
  - 29 Dec 2015
    5:59 pm
yeah it is hard to watch people that we love or used to love, devolve into shells of what they once were.

- - dbhall82 said
  - 25 Sep 2015
    3:41 pm
I am sorry to hear that, ice really changes people it’s a terrible addiction my heart goes out to you and your daughter xx

- - dannsbuild said
  - 07 Sep 2015
    4:06 pm
Yes, I’m so sorry it turned out that way too! Support is a great help!

- - mum4107 said
  - 06 Sep 2015
    10:17 pm
I’m so sorry it turned out that way. Have you thought of going to counselling.
- shelley shelley replied
  
  07 Sep 2015 , 8:44 pm
  I still attend counseling all the time, he never ever even tried to get help for himself or anyone else