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These men are breaking down gender barriers in the health profession each and every day.

According to the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (APHRA), fewer than 1% of registered midwives in Australia are male.

The term itself is misleading – it does not limit the role to women only, but rather refers to a person who is ‘with the woman’ while she gives birth.

For those of you who watched Channel Ten’s hit drama Offspring, you’d be familiar with Leo, a male midwife who despite his knowledge and expertise must prove himself in a female-dominated environment.

So would you have a male midwife with you during birth? If your answer is yes, you’re not alone.

The Heightened Emotions Of Pregnant And Labouring Women

There is a belief that male midwives simply wouldn’t be able to cope with the heightened emotions of pregnant and labouring women in the same way that female midwives would.

We think this is completely ridiculous and it turns out that Edith Cowan University’s associate professor of midwifery Sara Bayes agrees with us. Speaking to the ABC, Dr Bayes said, “Certainly the male midwives we’ve brought through our university, and that we have in our state that we know of, have had a very strong view that there is a place for men in that clinical setting. They do intensive training – they’re registered nurses already (and then) they do at least 12 months consistently in a clinical area, so they have an opportunity to make their networks and demonstrate their capability.”

Worries Proved Unfounded

A story published on parenting website essentialbaby.com.au recounts the experience of Becca who was assigned a male midwife for her birth. Despite some initial apprehension, Becca found her midwife to be nothing less than professional and supportive.

“He walked in and made me feel at ease very quickly with his kindness and humour, which continued throughout the whole labour. The room was very relaxed, yet I felt like he was in complete control. He was very calm and kept reminding me what a privilege it was for him to be sharing this amazing day in our life with us.”

What more can you ask for really? As in life, the gender of a person tells you very little about their personality and their capabilities – it’s what women have been trying to prove for nearly a century.

We think any man, or woman for that matter, that takes on this incredibly demanding and challenging job must be a pretty special person.

Would you be happy to have a male midwife look after you during birth? Let us know in the comments. 

 

  • I have never experienced a male midwife but if they didn’t have the right manner and expertise then they wouldn’t be in that field of work

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  • When I gave birth to my son back in 2016, I had a male midwife. That’s who’s walked into the labour ward. I didn’t care as I was in labour and wanted the kid out. He was so nice and I’m thankful to him.

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  • I had one for my first- started with a female but her shift finished and it was a long labour. Male midwife was awesome. I would have requested him the second time if I had a choice.

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  • There are male doctors so male nurses are quite fine.I certainly wouldnt mind

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  • With my 2nd child i had male midwife. He was so nice, gentle and carrying. Much better that the midwifes i met before and had during my both pregnancies.

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  • don’t see a problem, as long as he knows what he’s doing and is qualified for the job.

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  • As long as they are qualified and have a caring attitude, I don’t see this as a problem.

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  • I had a male midwife when I gave birth 3 months ago.
    I will be honest, I was apprehensive but his manner was calm and reassuring.
    He knew what to say and what not too.
    I think he was great.

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  • I prefer I female midwife in the same way I prefer a female Gp for me and my daughters, someone I can relate to and someone I can build a trust relationship with

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  • A male midwife may be a lot gentler than a female.
    In general I know some male nurses are much gentle in physically handling and supporting patients.
    When I had to have surgery (nothing to do with a baby) I preferred the male nurse for that reason.

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  • Nothing to do with qualifications, I’d just feel uncomfortable it being a male when I’m in a vulnerable position like during labour

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  • Absolutely I would, this person has done all the training and is qualified, why wouldn’t you

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  • As long as the midwife was professional and could do the job gender isn’t an issue for me

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  • If one walked in i wouldn’t care. No different to having a male Dr deliver your baby

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  • I have had both Male & Female midwives. I have had friendly ones and one lady who made me cry. To me I don’t care who it is, as long as they are caring and do their job well.

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  • They couldn’t be any worse than the horrendous female midwives I had to cope with.

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  • To be honest, I wouldn’t care at that point in time. So long as he has am amazing bedside manner!

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  • When my son was born in 1990, I had a male midwife, he had the same surname as me too which was bizarre. We aren’t related! He was lovely.

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  • I personally like having her women as that’s what I’m comfortable with, but while I’m in labour I probably wouldn’t care who was birthing my baby, so long as the baby comes out and is healthy!

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  • I actually had a male midwife…..nearly 30 years ago! He was lovely and so helpful. He even had the same surname as me

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