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January 25, 2021

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Have you been asking your child everyday “how was school?” and getting the response “good” or “I can’t remember”?

Here are ten great questions to ask your child which will get them talking and give you more insight into their day.

  1. What was the best and worst part of your day?
  2. What did you do in Science today (art, music etc.)?
  3. What subject did you enjoy the most today? Why?
  4. Who made you smile today?
  5. What was the funniest thing that happened today?
  6. Did you find anything hard today?
  7. What games did you play at lunch/recess?
  8. What did you learn today?
  9. What’s the nicest thing you did for someone today?
  10. What are looking forward to tomorrow?

All of these questions are great conversation starters to help give you more information about your child’s day. Don’t ask every question everyday, just pick one or two and make sure you lead by example and get them to ask you questions too.

A cute little way to get the family involved is to place all of the above questions into a box and ask everyone to pick one or two at dinner time, they then get to share the answer with everyone.

How do you get your kids sharing? Any tips? SHARE with us in the comments below.

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  • I ask my son these kinds of questions about his day at daycare. Sometimes I have to ask more specific questions like did you play on the bikes rather than did you play outside. I initially started having conversations when he couldn’t talk yet by telling him what we had done during the day and what we were doing the next day. I hope our nightly talks continue as he gets older.

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  • What a great list. I tried conversations about school day, kids aren’t very forthcoming

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  • These are a good set of questions instead of the ‘how was your day’
    I feel like we would get more if a conversation from these questions.

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  • I’m constantly asking my kids about parts of their day and all I get back in response is “I don’t know” ????????????

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  • We always ask what our kids favourite part of the day was. It helps then focus on positive things.

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  • Who made you smile today, love that

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  • I love these style of questions and use them today with my son. They definitely elicit an answer and conversation in comparison to “how was your day?”

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  • My boys never wanted to talk about school because that was their private world that grown-ups weren’t to know about (unless they had problems).

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  • I like this idea. Open ended questions are way better then ‘how was your day?’

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  • My son has Aspergers so he would not stop talking from the time he got in the car… and would continue at home. And then when his Dad came home he’d tell a less-emotional but edited version of his day.

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  • These topics all perfect to understand how they went at school.

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  • These are great questions especially for younger kids, less suitable for teen-agers though

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  • These are great open ended questions to ask, love talking to my daughter on the tip home from school.

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  • Perfect points and questions to start conversation

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  • Nice questions to ask! Builds a caring connection

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  • So important to always keep talking with your child. Most kids will give short one word answers but I think questioning them to find out more supports this rich conversation. Kids will feel like you are truly interested in their day.

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  • My bub doesn’t go to school yet but when she goes outside for a walk with mum or hubby I always ask her if she had fun and what she saw lol.
    Even though she might not understand yet I think it’s important to always show interest.

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  • I love this idea. A more direct questioning is more likely to get more specific answers. How was your day doesn’t work for a lot of kids

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  • All good question and conversation starters. I used to do this at the dinner table till it got to the point that nothing was being eaten. Now I try as soon as we get home but my girl is more interested in playing than talking (preferring to talk at dinner)

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  • When we eat dinner, we make sure we sit at the table and turn off the television. This helps with promoting good discussions too 🙂

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