Motherhood is not a one size fits all. We are all different and our kids are all different. We all need to do what is best for us and our child. Be brave enough to follow the beat of your own drum.

Being a Mum, you need to do what is best for bub but also for yourself. Thank you for being honest about your feelings.

Personally I can’t relate to Maddi’s post as I loved breastfeeding, but I understand her feelings and decision.

Well done Maddi for honestly sharing your experience. You do what works for you honey. We all do our best and each of our experiences is different. I had to stop breastfeeding as my bub was starving, so it was out of necessity. It’s not how I imagined things would be, but when I saw how not breastfeeding made my boy happier, it’s all the info I needed.

Everybody is different , people don’t have to be ashamed.If one thing doesn’t work for a person it’s better to give up.
Anyway I enjoyed breastfeeding my baby , I was actually sad when it was over.

I guess you have to do what you have to do if it is affecting your mental state but I breast fed and persevered even when it was tough because that’s what is ultimately best for bub. That being said my kids weren’t overly demanding feed wise so I guess I don’t know what it’s like to have a ‘cluster feeder’.

Everyone is different and I would never say a bad word about a person who chooses not to breastfeed. I chose to breastfeed and loved every moment and was sad when they stopped wanting ‘boobie’. My friend on the other hand, felt repulsed by the thought of breastfeeding. We just need to be accepting that we are all different.

This is rarely discussed but every word of it is true. For some the thought of stopping breast feeding terrifies them as they may think they will lose their bond with their little one. Some love it and are saddened that they have to stop because they love it. This statement reinforces that every mum is different and it is ok if you don’t want to do it any more or not even want to do it in the first place. I also think it is important for the child’s development that they move on to other feeding methods.

Good on you! If baby is happy & healthy, who cares how they’re fed? Modern society puts way too much emphasis on breastfeeding whilst neglecting the mental health of mums who do not enjoy it.

I wouldn’t say I enjoyed breast feeding my two children, but I knew it was best for them and sadly it’s not all about me anymore????

I don’t get why if you can carry a baby for 9 months you can’t put aside another few months for breastfeeding? It is scientifically proven that breast milk is the best for baby, and you do need to take care of yourself by eating correctly and taking it easy, why can’t the gym wait? Sad that mothers are rushing to get back to their ‘life’ instead of concentrating on nourishment for themselves and their babies. Women in underdeveloped countries do okay with their normal lives whilst breast feeding for even longer. Are women getting weaker or more selfish? Formula milk is not human milk, and there is evidence that formula fed babies develop more allergies , get sick more often and gut problems later in life.

Knowing your body limits, she did what was best for her and her family. Breastfeeding doesn’t work for everybody and that’s ok. Fed is best

Well done for being honest breastfeeding isn’t for everyone
And nobody should ever judge someone’s opinion for being honest

It’s good to have people put this stuff out there so people know they aren’t alone. I desperately tried to breastfeed but even the lactation consultant couldn’t get my baby to latch. Not being able to breastfeed was heartbreaking and all I ever heard and read was how wonderful it was and how important it was for the baby. It was almost enough to break me. It’s so important that women hear about different experiences and know they aren’t alone.

breastfeeding can be hard to do but it is selfless and benefits the baby so if you are able to do it, then you should. Maybe she would have developed depression if she kept on breastfeeding though

Wow, isn’t it amazing how the same situation affects people so differently. I absolutely adored breast feeding and didn’t find any of these problems while doing it

Good on you. You are doing what’s right for you and your family. Your health and sanity is important.

I believe it’s the best thing to breastfeed your child at first. When your ready then you should decide if you want to stop and not get a lot of negative feedback. It’s your family, your body, your sanity and your life. To have 2 wonderful children you are definitely doing something right. Enjoy your boys and your family life.

I loved being able to breast feed my children, so did not have the same problems as Maddie. Guess it’s each to their own in this problem.

I breast fed all my 4 children which included a set of twins. You have to look after yourself because if you are suffering, so are your children. She is a fantastic mum.