First of all you’re not in the wrong and not stupid. To me they sound like some unpleasant women. I would stop trying to say hello, you’ve done your part, let the initiative come from them now. Focus on other friendships and don’t let yourself hurt by them.

The direct approach is the only answer. If you wish to be friends with these people, you must go up to them and ask them nicely “Have I done or said something wrong to upset you? If they say no, then ask them quote..’why when I say hello do you ignore me, because I like being friends with you both’ end quote. Be pleasant, keep calm, and they should melt. Most people will react pleasantly when asked directly and nicely. This also works with husbands wives and children. Always ask why in a nice way.

Thanks everyone for the advice
we all went out together in the group about 10 of us and i couldn’t bring myself to say anything so im not going to bother and forget about but funny they did talk to me on the night out and i did mention it to another friend in the group and she assured me its not me as she has similar happen to her by the same mums

Asked them what is going on, and explain that you have seen them look away when you have spoken to them, and it is getting beyond the joke! If it keeps happening, you need to move on. Just stop talking to them, make new friends at the school instead.

The best thing to do is ask then flat out what the problem is don’t play games fair dinkem people get on my nerves tell them to get over it. Its adult bullying your better then them there got there knickers in a not over it. Smile girl.

If they continue to treat you like that they are not true friends. Or one Mum is too weak to stand up for herself. You may only be hurt more by their responses it you contact them.
Schools that have a few “feral” kids sometimes attain better results from most of their pupils whereas the other one doesn’t. Are some of the kids going to public school and others to a private one. If they are next to each other, may even be sharing some of the facilities. A family I know missed out on their preferred school by one block. Zoning can be quite stupid. I met a lady and her young daughter who was due to start school the following week when I met them on the bus. The family had just moved to Australia with his work. At that point they had no car and were going to have to save for one as they had no credit reference in Aust. They were within walking distance of one school but was one short street out of zone. They had to walk further than that to the bus stop to go to school. Then the Mum had to do the reverse, then go back at the end of the day to collect her daughter from school. Certainly not an ideal situation in bad weather.
I would try to make a fresh start with new friends. Maybe the other Mums who have turned their backs on you will regret their decisions later and it will be too late. Accept them back as friends and they may treat you the say way again in the future.

I would just forget it and move on to better people. Some people can be so pathetic. I wouldnt even bother asking what their problem is, they dont deserve your time or effort.

It appears to be disgraceful behaviour by adults. It is common courtesy to acknowledge someone when they say “hello”. Two options; confront them and ask them if their is an issue or they have a problem? or ignore their behaviour and move onto other parents. There are plenty of parents that act with maturity and honestly no one needs this sort of drama in their life. It sounds like there is a ring leader; if one mum will talk to you when the other is away and this is poor form by the other mum. I would not want this in a friendship. I would be suggest making connections with other parents and do not go out of your way for these people. Do not allow them to dent your self worth.

You could just go up to them and ask what the issue is, or even call them. However, I have learnt with people like that, forget them and move on! They are not worth your time and effort.

That’s absolutely not kind of them. I would phone them or better stop them and ask them if they have any problem with me. Don’t let them destroy your days!