Your daughter would be 10 now and I would love to hear how shes going.
I have 3 daughters. The eldest is very proud of her younger sisters and the middle sister gets a lot of attention as she is very angelic. Thankfully my girls are all best friends with each other and love being together.

Eldest one always wants more attention from others. My son did the same.He doesn’t want hear if some one talking good things about his sisters.But it was good to find her interest and make her involve to do it.

My boys were the same except the other way around. My eldest found it so easy to make friends but my youngest would mostly be alone. All we could do was encourage them just to be themselves and not let anything get them down. They are now both very intelligent people who have come a long way and I’m very proud of them both.

I think you’re doing a great job. But love the idea of finding something that will highlight your daughter’s strengths and for you to invest one-on-one time with that endeavour.

I agree with most suggestion made. Give her lots of positive praise, spend one on one with her (daddy and mummy dates), put her in an after school activity what she really likes and what builds her confidence. You’re doing great !

Maybe she might like to join a drama class. This will build her confidence and self esteem.

Just support her and tell her that everyone is different and you love her

Looks to me like you’re doing everything right and I’m sure both your daughters will grow into happy and confident women

Just be supportive and maybe spend more one-on-one time with just her. Take her shopping, get your nails and hair done together. Let her have the opportunity to find herself and her own style with shine through.
Your doing great, be positive!!!

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I was wondering if the child is one or if its their first birthday party because at one it would be hard if older easier.

She might need to talk to a psychologist to talk to as don’t let it carry on and maybe see about letting her join something she wants to on her own. Speak to your dr about what has been happening and see what they suggest to help her and don’t disguss it in front of the girls.

I wonder whether your eldest could have some time with her friends over when her younger sister isn’t there? It would give her a chance to build her connections and relationships without being overshadowed. Maybe younger sis could have some special time out with a grown up while big sis has a play date with her friends?