Hello!

I am 30 weeks pregnant and I’m still a bit concerned who the dad could be – my due date doesn’t match up to my LMP and I slept with two people over the two week period – My LMP was on the 20th of April I had intercourse on the 28th of April and then again on the 11th-12th of May. My due date is the 31st January. I don’t want know negative comments I just want to see what peoples opinion is on who might be the father.

Posted by anon, 05/12/13

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  • You could maybe work it out by when you ovulated but DNA test would be the best way. Did you find out? :)


  • Its very hard to tell. DNA


  • You are entitled to one free DNA test once the baby is born.


  • i think that is 2 close 2 tell. dna test i think


  • there are some good comments here


  • yeah its too close to tell maybe a dna test when the baby is born


  • Its 2 close to tell. I would say the 28th but you could never been sure with out a dna teat.


  • Unfortunately the best way is through DNA testing which means you will need to tell both guys. I think its great that you want to be completely sure who the dad is


  • They say that if it is a girl, the earlier date is more likely, if a boy the later date but that could be completely wrong.
    The only way you can be sure is with DNA testing.


  • It sounds like the second intercourse was more likely to have resulted in the pregnancy.


  • Nine months from the April date would take you to January. But I agree – you’d have to get them both tested to really be sure.


  • like the others have said, DNA testing is the only way to know for sure but I would think 28 april is probably more likely.


  • how did you go? :)


  • Hope all goes well with finding out and you are happy with the answer.


  • DNA testing for sure :)


  • The only way to 100% sure would be DNA testing. Best to know for sure than just by guessing through dates. They (the potential fathers) would want to know to, so I am sure neither would disagree on the DNA testing. Try talking to them now so you can have it all in place to be done when bub is here. You don’t want to have bub with the worry hanging over your head, you should enjoy this moment!! Good luck with everything and I hope it all works out for you and enjoy the arrival of your little bundle. Sending blessings your way :-)


  • I know hypocrite aren’t I? Difference being I wouldn’t judge them on their personal choices or actions, nor the outcomes from said actions.


  • I would tend to think the later date of conception would be the one as on average we ovulate around 14days after our period and can conceive only after the egg is released at that point (usually have a couple of very fertile days).


  • Yeah I would say it was about the 11/12 may. To work it out yourself count 38 weeks backwards from edd. The doctors count the 40 weeks from the first day of your period. Which doesn’t work properly for people like me who have irregular periods!


  • I’d hazard a guess to say that the likely contestant is the 11/12 May guy. But only a test would tell for sure.


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