Nan had her life and this is your life so you make your own choices.
As long as you are caring for your children as you should and giving them a lot of love then I dont see a problem with it.

You just must do what you feel is right for you. Bet your kids are very happy and they would also welcome every new addition you bring to your family. Nan will accept it because she loves all of you as well.

You need to do what works for your and your hubby as you have the rest of your lives together as a family and sadly your Nan won’t be there in the future

its your decision only you know if you can cope and provide. have you asked your nan why she thinks is a bad idea?

Six kids and you want more, you are amazing. Honestly, is not up to anyone but yourself and your husband to decide if you want more children. Why are you letting nan have such major influence

Your family, your decision.

If you are struggling it sounds like it gets hard at times

Also the average age of a first time mum is 31, so I dont know who thinks 33 is too old! ??

What do you mean by you do struggle at times? If this is an issue it will be more so with another child. I dont think your Nan’s opinion is relevant here unless she is helping look after the kids or in some other way like financial.

Hi there,

If your husband and you want another child then do it if you can afford it and it works for you guys, I don’t see why your nan would be upset or why it would concern her if she is not looking after them financially or any other way?

I believe this is a private decision between yourself and your partner and you need to do what makes you happy and what you decide if your nan gets upset by it then so be it. It is your life and you need to be happy you can’t be trying to please others so if you can afford it and want another one go for it!

I dont quite know why it upsets your nan? But this is your life and one thats a decision for you to make not her.

You don’t need anyone’s permission for anything to do with your womb or your husband’s penis. Do what you both feel is right

it is completely tour and your husband private matter and decision shoukd ve only yours no matter what the other people said

Never listen to others, it’s up to you and your husband. Your still young…..I had my last baby (baby number 5) when I was 38 so you still have plenty of years in you. Do it or you’ll regret it!

Follow your heart. If you want your family to continue to grow then thats only up to you and your husband. Your nan may be disappointed now but they cant help falling in love with babies. Your happiness is important too.

Do what’s best for you and your kids

It is yours and your husbands choice and it sounds like you aren’t finished bringing children into your family. Unless your Nan is paying for your family it should be your decision.

I personally think that if you don’t feel done and if it is right for you and your family (immediate in your house only) then why not? We always will do something that our older relatives don’t agree with but it’s tour life, your home and your decision and in the end …. they don’t stay too disappointed when it comes to another life coming into the family.

It’s lovely your considering your nans feelings but the choice is for you and your husband. I honestly think your Nan would come around and be very happy for you.
Lots of kids are lovely ????

Why would your Nan be disappointed? Is she concerned about your ability to care for that many children? Its not really her decision. But 7 children is a lot and not a decision to be taken lightly.