I would have a word with a close family member and ask them to help you organise a baby shower.

A friend usually does buy you can do your own

Anyone can do your baby shower. If a friend or family member offers to do the organising, lucky you, go for it. But if you want to organise it, go for it too. I don’t think there’s a someone who ‘should’ do it

I organised my own if I didnt I would have had one,

No you should not have to organise your own, your mum, sister or close friend/s should. It is to celebrated you and also your baby on the way

You throw it darling!

My best friend & sister are organising mine.

i think the god parent should throw you a party

there are some good comments here

i dont have anyone to throw me one so i dont know

I had my mum and sister help me to it. I couldn’t let someone take the whole burden of organising and cooking all the food for it.

If you really want a baby shower & no one offers, I don’t see any problem with throwing your own

Did you end up having one for yourself or did someone offer to hold it for you?

a close family member of mine organised mine with my mum. she offered very early in my pregnancy and i was just like yes go for it. maybe you could mention it to your mum or a close friend or throw it yourself. if no one had offered to do mine i would of thrown one for myself. you could always do a couples one and your hubby could organise it.

how did it go

i would be honest and tell close friends and family how much you’d love to have a baby shower and ask what they would suggest

I do agree – just organise one for yourself!

If no one is stepping up- organise one yourself or ask a close friend if they would like to help.

A friend from work arranged mine. But you certainly can organise your own if you’d like one

If your really wanting one, you can organise one for yourself