Currently we don’t speak to my sister in law or see her since we got married because of her actions. However when we had our baby we said to my mother-in-law do not send photos of him to her, she will not be involved in his life. We then found out she was sending photos, we confronted her and her response was I only sent a few I didn’t send them all. When we know she sent lots. She said she’s his Aunty. And my husband said no she isn’t. We said if you continue to do this you will not see our son again. We then found out she sent another photo. I have only seen one photo be sent so far but it’s still a photo. The bigger issue isn’t her sending photos, its her purposely going against what we have asked.
Are we being unreasonable? I know it’s just a photo but we have said don’t send anything to her.