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October 30, 2025

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Australians are having fewer children than ever. At 1.5 babies per woman, the fertility rate is at a record low. Many attribute this to the cost of having and raising children.

If this is true, it raises questions of intergenerational fairness and future planning for governments. What do we do about the young would-be parents who are opting out because it’s simply too expensive?

The problem with this assumption is that while it may feel true that childbearing must have become more expensive over the decades, it’s not that simple.

So what do parents have to fork out to raise children, how do we measure it, and are kids really that much more expensive now than they used to be?


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Crunching the numbers

Calculating the cost of raising kids is a complicated beast that raises many questions for academics to consider. Is a second child less expensive than a first child? Are older children more expensive than younger children? Do higher income families spend more on children than lower income families, and what share of that spending is necessary compared to discretionary?

These are debates in the literature for which there aren’t necessarily clear answers, in spite of much research.

Researchers also contest whether we should talk about just the direct cost, or if we should also consider the indirect costs, such as the impact on hours in paid work or the loss of leisure time for busy parents. We focus here and in our paper for the Economic Inclusion Advisory Committee on the direct costs.

One way, and probably the more intuitive, is the “budget standards” approach. This puts a value on the cost of a basket of goods and services for a family with and without children. The difference is the cost of children.

This seems simple, until it’s not. For example, do you need a fourth bedroom for a third child? Do you need a bigger car? A larger fridge? Private or public school? Childcare or at home care? What about hand-me-down clothes and toys?

Another approach, which is our focus, is a survey-based statistical method (or “iso-welfare” in technical terms) comparing living standards of different households. We ask how much more income (or spending) is required to ensure the same living standard between a family with children and a family without children.

Living standards are measured by what share of total household income or expenditure is spent on basic items, such as food or utilities.

The logic here is that a family that spends a lower share (on average) on basic goods has a higher standard of living than a family that spends a higher share on basic goods.

The latest high quality survey on expenditure in Australia is now ten years old, so in our latest research we’ve taken a new approach. We use financial stress as a measure of living standards instead.

Using Housing Income and Labour Dynamics in Australia (HILDA) data, we model financial stress against income and a range of other household variables and estimate how much extra disposable income a family with children needs to maintain the same living standard as a couple without children. That extra income is considered the cost of children.

While there are many advantages to using this method, a major drawback is that it doesn’t give you an estimate for how much a family needs to spend, rather how much they do spend. Families may well spend more than what they strictly need to.

So, how much do families spend on children?

We estimate families spend about 13% of their disposable income on the first child and a further ten percentage points for each child after that.

For a working-age couple earning the typical after-tax income (around A$130,000 per year), that equates to about $17,000 per year for the first child and around $13,000 per year for each subsequent child.

That means to raise the eldest child to adulthood, the couple would spend about $300,000 over 18 years in today’s dollars. Subsequent children would be about $230,000 each.

Lower income families spend a higher share of their income on children, at around 17% for the first child and 13% for subsequent children. But these households spend a lower absolute amount on children.

Does age of the child change the cost? There is uncertainty around this, but our latest research indicates younger children and older children are moderately more expensive than middle aged (six to 12) children.

This finding contrasts with previous research and conventional wisdom that older children are the most expensive.

These estimates are not set in stone. There are different ways to estimate such numbers and they can differ depending on what definitions you adopt and methods you use to analyse the data.

Ok, do kids cost more now?

The HILDA dataset has been gathered over many years, so we can compare the cost of children through time, albeit not perfectly.

Single year samples are relatively small and subject to error, but that analysis suggests not a lot has changed with the cost of children since 2001.

Our research doesn’t provide clues as to why fertility rates in Australia have dropped (as they have in most developed nations). Other data such as Australian Bureau of Statistics income survey and financial stress data suggest real incomes for couples with children have increased over the longer term (although not by much, if at all, in recent years).

The lack of evidence here likely points to other factors driving lower fertility rates. Families may be delaying having children to focus on other pursuits, such as employment or education. It’s also more acceptable for couples, and women in particular, to choose to not have children.

Another possible reason is people could be being deterred by the perception of higher costs, instead of the actual cost. Or perhaps people simply want to spend their money elsewhere.

Calculating the cost of children is complex and imprecise, but it’s fair to say the evidence doesn’t show that the direct cost of kids is getting more expensive over time. Younger generations not having kids, or fewer kids, is likely related to many factors, but we can’t draw affordability down generational lines.The Conversation


Ben Phillips, Associate Professor, POLIS@ANU Centre for Social Policy Research, Australian National University

This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.

  • I really dont think that the lower birth rate is entierly a financial one.
    I think over the years woman are now more focused on their job and couples are leaving it until later to get married and/or to decide to have children which often means it is harder to fall pregnant for many. Hence the high rate of IVF.
    Not as many couple get married in their early 20’s and have children straight away anymore.

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  • Those numbers and costs don’t really surprise me at all. I think so long as you are prepared and manage finances carefully, you’d find it can be quite manageable. I pride myself on being super savvy and saving costs where ever I can.

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  • I suspect most people don’t really think much more than a year or two ahead when they think about having kids. That’s not the worst thing; that year can be a huge budget shock. And in future years, well, there are so very many variables that I don’t know you could really plan for them.

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  • I think it’s impossible to calculate such a figure! I’ve seen huge families who buy in bulk, save in every way and reuse reuse reuse. Then I’ve seen single child families who buy everything name brand, private schools, flying lessons and the like. Raising a child shouldn’t be priced it’s impossible

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  • This is really interesting. I knew it was pricey, but seeing a figure is quite a shock. I think coat of living is making it more expensive. Groceries are at a high right now, so it’s pricey feeding your family nutritious, fresh meals. We are lucky that it is within our means to do so

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  • I am not surprised by these figures at all, in fact, I am surprised that it isn’t higher. It seems like every other week there is another expense I have to fork out for extra curriculars. Do the figures factor in those things? Not every family does it, but my kids have both had things at times all through growing up. Plus the cost of fruit and vege in Tassie at the moment is crazy!! Call me cheap but $6.90 or $7.90 is too expensive for apples!!

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  • Everything does indeed seem to cost more these days and that can be strain on the family budget for many. It does take a lot of research and work to find ways to budget and stretch the dollar further, when funding the cost of living and raising a family and enjoying life.

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  • This is really similar to an article I read in the New York Times this week. It is hard to quantify what kids cost; in the same way it’s hard to quantify what they give you. I think trying to estimate costs is useful, as it helps people plan when they’re thinking about having kids.

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  • I don’t think it is actually that expensive to have kids. I think, you gain way more than you lose. You cannot prepare yourself financially to have kids. People like to say that they don’t have enough money to have kids, but you never will. People become rich and find money because of having kids and not other way. Family gives people purpose and goal to achieve more and better.

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  • There are so many factors that come into play when it comes to the cost of raising a child or children. Things such as income amounts, whether you have family to help with childcare, which school your child attends, what activities your child is into. Everyone’s situation will be different.

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  • I’m not sure if raising a child cost more nowadays as the cost of living has increased a crazy amount these past years. I’m not sure either if raising older children is more expensive; it totally depends on what you provide for your kids as older kids also have their own job. This means for example they can pay their own driving lessons, their own car, and their own study/university

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  • The act of living does indeed cost a considerable amount of money and having children does cost even more money but it is a choice that is very much worth it. Indeed; having less money and material possessions is a given with our family commitments. Living within means is so very essential for our family and focusing on the family priorities.

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  • Cost of living definitely does play a role as to more women are now in the workforce and have careers too. It’s not easy taking time off to raise a child whether it be for financial reasons or career reasons. There is time and commitment and having to change your schedules.

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  • I think it is hard to say if kids do cost more as the cost of living has increased so you would need to take this into consideration. Although the world has changed a lot since we were kids, and the needs of kids have slightly changed, i do think it costs a lot to have kids and everything you need to pay for for them but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I love my daughter and will give her what I can.

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