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November 29, 2019

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We constantly talk about ‘school readiness’ but what does it actually mean?

With the school year drawing to a close, and a new class of kids preparing to start school in 2020, the debate about when to send your child to school is on again. There’s an argument for every side. If you send them early, you’ll be extending them, if you send them later, you give them a chance to gain confidence first. It seems you just can’t win. So when is the right time to send your child to school and is it the same for everybody?

An Overwhelming Time

Starting primary school is an overwhelming time for any child, and for parents too it can be a difficult transition. ‘School readiness’ is not about academic ability necessarily, but refers instead to the knowledge, skills and behaviours children need to be able to adjust to the demands of the school environment.
Children who are school ready are:

  • Able to get along with other children
  • Able to follow instructions and directions from teachers
  • Able to cope with minimal adult contact in a large group
  • Able to speak clearly and communicate their needs
  • Able to demonstrate fine and gross motor skills like running, jumping, holding a pencil etc.
  • Able to independently go to the toilet, carry their bag and manage their belongings

More Than Just A Number

For kids born at the very start or end of the calendar year, the options are a little less flexible. If you turn 5 in December, chances are you’ll be starting school in February bang on schedule. For those born in the middle of the year however, they can start school at 4 1/2, 5/12 and in the case of some kids, 6 years of age. It really comes down to the judgement of parents.

Can you see your child heading off to school in a uniform, with a school bag and homework and responsibilities? If the answer is no, and they’re not quite at school age yet, perhaps it’s worth considering another year at pre-school to give them the best chance of success.

How did you know when it was time to send your children to school? Tell us in the comments.

 

 

  • I think some parents have the wrong idea about holding their children back. I think there needs to be better rules on this.

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  • Children seem to grasp what school is about at different ages – and every child is different – heaven help the hired help at guessing whether your child is ready or not.

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  • my son will have just turned 6 when he starts school next year, he was no where near ready for school last year, ask the kinder teachers what they think, they are trained to know whether they need some extra time

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  • My son goes to school next year and is super excited

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  • My younger one is 3 but she is ready to go school bit here kinder starts at 4

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  • My youngest youngest was ready for kinder at 3 and ready for school at 4 lol

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  • Than you for all the points. My son is just 3yo and we still have some time before our decision.

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  • My son was never ready to go to school, I agreed to homeschool for a year but he ended up loving it and even though his kinder friends kept asking him to go to school he said he did not want to. Homeschool is not for everyone but it is a really great option.

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  • A confusing time for all parents.

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  • Every kid is different, use your gut and speak with your child’s kindergarten or day care teachers and get their advice.

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  • Yes, agreed it can be confusing to know if your child is ready

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  • This is really tricky for a lot of parents. I’d suggest waiting if you’ve any doubt.

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  • Being clever is not enough. They need to have more developed social skills and hopefully be able to follow some instructions and sit still for a short time too.

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  • My daughter was nearly 5 when she started school as her birthday is in June but I am sorry that I sent her that young she really struggled

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  • I wanted with my eldest until she was a bit older as she wasn’t ready and I’m glad I did as it took her a long time to settle even with this

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  • When they know the right social ques to be able to interact with other children, teachers etc. Most children breeze through but for some it’s too early. I think every mother knows when her child is ready.

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  • concentration span, ability to engage with things, can have some time away from parent.Unfortunately sometimes it is hard to tell until they actually start. My confident child who breezed through transitions visits, did not cope well for the first few weeks of school.

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  • I didn’t think we had a choice. I was told the year they turn 5 is when they start kindergarten. And we had to make sure they were capable of going to the toilet on their own. My son hated it, he probably wasn’t ready, but I don’t think he ever would be. He was that kind of kid. My daughter however would have happily gone off with her brother when she was 1

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  • Super keen was a good indicator of being ready.

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  • THere are heaps of school readiness programs out there too.

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