A baby’s first Christmas is incredibly special, but if we’re honest, they’ll never remember it! So is it ok to ask people not to gift a baby toys and clothes for their first Christmas to avoid an abundance of ‘stuff’?
A first-time-mum says she’s asked her family and friends to avoid giving her three-month-old baby any toys or clothes for Christmas, and it didn’t go down well.
She took to Facebook to make the following request:
“Christmas is approaching quickly, and I know some of you are excited to give a gift to [babies name] for his first Christmas. We ask respectfully that you avoid toys and clothes as we have more than enough and are trying to limit the amount of toys he has (less is more!!) If you are stuck and would like ideas please send me or [partners name] a message! Thanks everyone, very much appreciated.”
But, as she explained, she was inundated with negativity.
“My partner’s grandpa commented ‘Beggars can’t be choosers’. My MIL went on a rant to my partner that people will view it as disrespectful and rude, and that people give gifts to make themselves feel better and its their money so they can choose what to gift him.
“I think she’s offended because she’s already bought him toys, my partner said she bought him toys for Christmas before he was even born!!
“My thinking behind it is we would rather people not gift him anything or gift something useful like swimming lessons or books. He already has all the toys he needs and we live in a tiny space so I don’t really have the space for anymore toys or clothes. They would end up in the charity bin. Also, he’s literally three months, he has no idea WTF is going on, he can’t conceptualise gifts or Christmas.”
She now wants to know if she was in the wrong for putting the post on Facebook? What do you think? Let us know in the comments below.
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