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Ghost Whisperer star Jennifer Love Hewitt has opened up about something many parents can relate to – the sheer terror of being allowed to go home with your new baby.

“Those first couple of nights, it was wild,” said the actress, who is married to Brian Hallisay, her co-star in The Client List.

“When they let us bring her home I said to [Brian], ‘To get your licence you have to take a test. They check to make sure you’re a good human being to get behind the wheel of a car. They’ve given us no test! We just had a baby and now we’re going home.’ He was like, ‘I know, it’s terrifying!’”

But daughter Autumn James, 4 months old, has settled in to life with her now very capable parents.

Her husband is “fantastic. He’s great at diaper changing and at the football hold, which she loves,” said Jennifer. “It’s really 50-50. I feel very lucky that way! I do the stuff that I need to do as a mom and he does the dad part.”

Like most celebrities who have given birth, the actress has found the focus soon goes to losing her baby weight – especially given the taunting about her body after some unflattering photos were published in 2007.

“Having been somebody who has had to think about what my body looked like for 25 years, it was hard when it didn’t come off. I didn’t look like some of the girls in the magazines that I’ve worked with … who [the weight] does fall off for,” she says.

“I was like, ‘What’s wrong with me?’ I had to have a conversation with myself. I had to look at her and think, ‘Would I want her to feel this way when she’s my age?’ I was like, ‘Get it together – your head’s in the wrong place.’

“It took nine months to get it this way, it might take nine months to get it back. If I have an hour to go to the gym or an hour to lie down and take a nap with her in my arms, I’m going to lie down and take a nap.”

A bit of swimming and Zumba are now being introduced, and “I hold her, we do squats, we dance, she listens to the music and she loves it. Or I put her in her little chair and she watches and thinks it’s really funny,” she shares.

“[Working out is] really jarring to your body. I don’t know how people go back and do CrossFit a week later. It’s just not me. I’m slowly getting back into it. I’m not that worried.”

Image of “Jennifer Love Hewitt” from Shutterstock
  • She seems to know what she wants, have always loved her, good on her

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  • It is so scary when it is your first but once you know you never forget.

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  • What a lovely, genuine and honest person. Lots of us mums were in the same situation.

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  • It is so scary when you leave the hospital!

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  • I know we definitely had that feeling too

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  • Wow. Its great to see that fame doesn’t change parenting.
    I hope a lot of young Mum’s see this and realise they aren’t the only ones scared of parenthood! 🙂

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  • What an honest and encouraging article. It’s so nice when you hear of celebrities or people who have a strong influence speak out about these sorts of things. It makes them more human and helps other mums dealing with the same issues take a breath and stop beating themselves up. Great article 🙂

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  • Nice to read this as our first little one is due very soon and have been having the same thoughts. And I applaud her attitude to post-baby bodies as even the commentary about weight gain during pregnancy is starting to get to me and I’ve put on a healthy amount.

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  • I still remember our first night home with our 1st baby OMG i was so scared but it does get better and its a natural feeling.

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  • Thats so true…. It’s terrifying those first few nights. Famous folks Wouldn’t be any different 🙂

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  • So nice to hear celebritie talked honestly and from the heart .Does make me wonder why schools don’t have more parenting classes .School is for education ,life ed ,along with us parents hands on practice.Jennifer has the right idea about weight ,9months on 9 months take off !

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  • Good on her, it’s true you don’t know what your doing when you take your baby home..it’s all trial and error

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  • Exercise in any form is important, I like her too always have 🙂

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  • I loved this and it really made it normal some of the things I experienced

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  • This is what many mums are afraid of me included.

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  • She sounds so down to earth.

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  • It’s good to know naps and cuddles are preferred over the gym sometimes. Now I don’t feel so bad

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  • Yep crazy mum hormones make you think like this

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  • i really like jennifer love. Hewitt. and no one really know. how they. will feel when they. have. there first. child what. reaction we will have i. thing it take’s times wishing you all the very best you’ll. get their. Jennifer just have a little faith in you’re. bilities.

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  • Its good that even celebrities remind us that they’re human!

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