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Ghost Whisperer star Jennifer Love Hewitt has opened up about something many parents can relate to – the sheer terror of being allowed to go home with your new baby.

“Those first couple of nights, it was wild,” said the actress, who is married to Brian Hallisay, her co-star in The Client List.

“When they let us bring her home I said to [Brian], ‘To get your licence you have to take a test. They check to make sure you’re a good human being to get behind the wheel of a car. They’ve given us no test! We just had a baby and now we’re going home.’ He was like, ‘I know, it’s terrifying!’”

But daughter Autumn James, 4 months old, has settled in to life with her now very capable parents.

Her husband is “fantastic. He’s great at diaper changing and at the football hold, which she loves,” said Jennifer. “It’s really 50-50. I feel very lucky that way! I do the stuff that I need to do as a mom and he does the dad part.”

Like most celebrities who have given birth, the actress has found the focus soon goes to losing her baby weight – especially given the taunting about her body after some unflattering photos were published in 2007.

“Having been somebody who has had to think about what my body looked like for 25 years, it was hard when it didn’t come off. I didn’t look like some of the girls in the magazines that I’ve worked with … who [the weight] does fall off for,” she says.

“I was like, ‘What’s wrong with me?’ I had to have a conversation with myself. I had to look at her and think, ‘Would I want her to feel this way when she’s my age?’ I was like, ‘Get it together – your head’s in the wrong place.’

“It took nine months to get it this way, it might take nine months to get it back. If I have an hour to go to the gym or an hour to lie down and take a nap with her in my arms, I’m going to lie down and take a nap.”

A bit of swimming and Zumba are now being introduced, and “I hold her, we do squats, we dance, she listens to the music and she loves it. Or I put her in her little chair and she watches and thinks it’s really funny,” she shares.

“[Working out is] really jarring to your body. I don’t know how people go back and do CrossFit a week later. It’s just not me. I’m slowly getting back into it. I’m not that worried.”

Image of “Jennifer Love Hewitt” from Shutterstock
  • this is exactly what i felt like

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  • Oh, I’ve fallen in love with Jennifer Love Hewitt all over again. Telling it like it is. It’s exactly how I felt bringing my baby home (and about my body). I love the celebrity pieces. Would love to read more please.

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  • I think some of those who work in the land of make believe find it harder when “reality” hits home. We’re all only human after-all.

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  • I really like this article. I can relate to all the issues she has raised.

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  • good to see that there are only human

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  • A lovely article – thanks

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  • she has her priorities right. the weight can come off later.

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  • I found looking after my first child quite easy. The thing that scared me the most was giving birth the first time because I didnt know how much it would hurt.

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  • It’s funny but I was so numb from the shock of the delivery that the fear of taking care of a child didn’t even occur to me until after my son and I were used to each other. I guess that worked out for both of us, but looking back it’s a bit scary in itself…

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  • I love that Jennifer’s sayin what most first-time parents probably would. I certainly felt that way – we’re on our own now! What did the midwife say again? Help!

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  • yeah i once heard jokingly that the first child is a bit of a trip in the dark unless you’ve been a child educator of something, however there is some truth behind jokes we make! trial and error!

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  • So very frank and true, babies don’t come with instructions! We learn as we go!

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  • Love it. Exactly my thought when we brought our little boy home. I was surprised how little involvement there was when we brought our little man home. But we managed. Unfortunately some don’t.

    I love her thoughts on weight loss too. There are certainly more important things than focusing on getting skinny, when you have a little one. 🙂


    • Totally agree about the weightless thing as well. It’s great to see she doesn’t feel the same pressure as other celebrities to look abnormally toned straight after giving birth. There are far more important things to worry about with a new bub on deck! 🙂

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  • Articles like this remind us that celebrities are human beings just like the rest of us!

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  • I was terrified. It was so scary taking bub home with no idea what I was doing! But you learn fast!

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  • So true. Just great to hear someone being honest about how terrifying parenthood is.

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  • How very refreshing to read about a actor that does not strive to be back to usual body weight and shape a week after bubs birth. A nice down to earth story and just goes to show they are only human. I wish her all the best.

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  • good for her to be thinking about herself and her baby,not worry about who lost weight how quickly after birth,as long as she’s healthy that’s all that matters.

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  • Its nice to see that famous people are still well human… It is abit scary becoming a mum but its the best scary thing that can happen to a woman!!

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  • Putting it out there is the best thing for Mothers and to share their experiences makes us all feel like we are doing the right thing just at different timers and different stages. There are no rules as to what’s right and what’s wrong.
    Good on her for her story.

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