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There’s been a re- shuffle in our house.

One of the five childrens’ bedrooms is the Taj Mahal of teen sleeping spaces.

It is as large as the master bedroom, but without the ensuite. It’s spacious enough for a couch, on which to slouch and hang out with friends, and has a built in desk and robe so you sizeable enough for a small party.

Needless to say it’s the most coveted of crash zones.

To win this room, it’s easy.             

You have to be older than your siblings and not move out of the home for more than six months.

So, with the oldest gone for good, and the second eldest on a year-long international study exchange, it became the next daughter-in-line’s turn to claim it.

So eagerly did she want to do this, that on the very day we returned from our month long overseas holiday, she shrugged off jet-lag, skipped lunch and started lugging loads of her stuff next door into the Taj.

That of course meant her now vacant room was next to go.

For the fourth eldest daughter, that ensured dropping down a level and up a peg in decor.

She moved from her upstairs room, decorated in back to back Justin Beiber pull-out posters from teen mags, to a bedroom with clean walls away from the parents zone, which she then remodelled to be reminiscent of our New York holiday with landscapes, doona cover and snaps of the big apple.

So far, so good.

But it means these two middle girls are now sharing a bathroom.

“I think we should have colour coded towels,” said one.

“I’ll have the red and you have the other colours,” she continued.

“No, I want the bottom rack, so I can hang my togs and other stuff. And I don’t want to have your things taking up my space,” said the other.

“I don’t want the top rack,” said the colourful daughter.

“I don’t want your stuff on my rack,” said the bottom rack dweller.

“I don’t use as many towels as you, so I don’t want your things taking up all the room”.

Back and forth it went.

A clash of colour and rack domination.

I left this towel drama out to dry.

No locks or divides or rules for this one. (other than it had to be tidy)

In the end it has come down to a similar sibling structure as the bedroom shuffle.

Older one rules.

She now has the bottom rack. Her sister has the colour red. (Although she is happy to include other colours as she sees fit)

But here’s the winner in all this.

The youngest child is upstairs alone and now has a bathroom with both racks all to herself.

And while the others were cleaning and moving rooms she went to the movies.

  • yes this will be us down the track

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  • lol fighting over the top or bottom rack i think me and my sister did these kinda things 😛 now that i am a mum i hope my kids don’t do it though…..

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  • Right now my kids are small but I can see all this happening very soon…….

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  • I know who I’d rather be. Shame the older kids have to set such a bad example for the younger one, but I guess that’s just the age old sibling rivalry.

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  • Never thought that they would fight over a rack spot

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  • Hahaha the youngest child scored 🙂 Smart kid 🙂

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  • Thankfully we only have 1 bathroom, no rack fights, but I don get the occasional “MUM.. He/She used my towel.”
    Your youngest is the luckiest for sure.

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  • This sounds like something I get to look forward to lol mine are all under 9 for the moment but blink and we will be buying colour coded towels thanks for the idea

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  • Lucky I didn’t have this problem when I used to live together with my three bothers, mum and dad. We have all our towels hung outside the bathroom.

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  • great reading. really shows what it would be like living in a large family i have one brother so didnt have these struggles. great story loved it

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  • Ha Ha we had colour coded towel in my family when I was a kids and I still carry the ritual on with hubby now!

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  • This story reminds me so much of when as teenagers, my sister, step-sister and I had to share one bathroom with mum and dad. To this already cluttered mix, my step-brother would add his things to the bathroom shuffle every second weekend.

    I’m the eldest and was also responsible for cleaning the bathroom. This gave me an advantage over all, as I could arrange my things where I wanted during cleaning.

    Thank you for the memories and reminding me that this will be an issue when our babies grow-up and our soon to be adopted daughter joins our clan, along with what will hopefully eventuate to be frequent visits from my step-son.

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  • There are 6 in our family and we recently hosted 2 exchange students and one family member. One bathroom!

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  • When i grew up there was 6 of us using 1 bathroom it will be a few more years until i have this problem.

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  • I dread the day my kids grow up and start this. I remember what it was like when I was a kid!

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  • i guess it’s a good thing i never got that sister i wanted lol.

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  • lol – I have two teenage girls who have just got a bathroom to themselves and they are not arguing between them as to what colour towels they can use but telling us which ones we cant!!!

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