Poor bubba

I watch this family on youtube and all that matters is that the baby is healthy

I would say congratulations on your baby girl and shes a healthy beautiful one. I would never want to grow up hearing that my mother would say that. Just hope it was the laughing gas that made her say that!

Why are the younger generation so focused on perfection , not only in the clothes they wear, the house they live in , the car they drive and now heaven forbid the colour of their children’s eyes. Makes my blood pressure go up . The poor little precious baby is getting bad vibes from mum from day 1 , the eyes will change colour anyway. Plesse appreciate what you have one day it may not be there.

She is young – she should just be so pleased that her baby is a healthy one.

She’s a very young mum and hopefully she will come to realise how silly the comment was.

I’m sure the baby will be loved. I hope her preference for eye colour doesn’t make the kids hate their own. Aren’t newborns too new to know eye colour?

What happened to being happy with a healthy baby and a safe delivery

I think everyone is too preoccupied with appearances these days. How sad for this bub. I hope the mum learns a lesson here.

When my youngest was born with brown hair, I was like “Yay, one of my kids has my hair colour” in a joking way. (My oldest was born fair blonde and my second strawberry blonde). Then her hair got lighter and is now a dark blonde. My son’s also darkened up and is a dark blonde too. I think they have a nicer hair colour than me. It’s amazing how hair colour can be anything, and not like either parent. My oldest daughter’s father is a red head too though, but it also runs in my family as well. My older two do have my eyes, brown and all tan well (which is great for my oldest daughter as her father burns like there’s no tomorrow). My youngest didn’t get my eyes. In the end, it doesn’t matter at all as long as they are healthy.

Strange comment indeed. And, by the way, the colour of the eyes can change within a year.

I can’t understand what the Father is saying? The Mother needs to learn how to support their baby’s head.

She really is not alone in this, many people make comments about appearances

I think it was taken out of context. She probably didnt mean it to sound the way she did. It was just a naive comment at the time like when we say oh no it looks like the dad

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  • • Ellen replied
    • 08 Jun 2019 , 3:59 am

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  I think so too

Babies change so much in the first few months, everything could change

Babies eye colour and features change over time, nothing to worry about. I know many mums want their babies to look like them or their dad and openly express this but the difference is that their life is not public so there is not much criticism for them. She has given her birth so she has the right to express her feelings it doesn’t mean she doesn’t love her.

I’m one of 3 kids….and we all have different eye colour. Odd thing to comment on after just giving birth….just wouldn’t think that’d be high on the list of things to mention lol.

My 3 kids ask have different coloured eyes, you don’t know what they will be unto they get older

Babies eyes often change colour in the first 3 months or so anyway.

Yeah, this is a really trivial thing to worry about.

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  • • mom93821 replied
    • 09 Jun 2019 , 9:02 am

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  A healthy baby is a priority and eye colour is surely a secondary concern.