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A mum has faced the wrath of thousands of keyboard warriors after sharing her nine-year-old’s lunch, with some claiming the snacks are ‘equivalent to poison’.

Nita Eyvette, a blogger who runs Life Of London And Mommy, often shares the meals she makes for her nine-year-old daughter London but it was one particular school lunch that saw her inundated with negative comments.

School lunch shame

The bento-style lunch box contained kiwi fruit, a cheese stick, peanut butter and jam ‘tacos’, and an assortment of American snacks including Ceez It, Takis, and Chex Mix. The post was soon overflowing with comments like this:

“So much junk food. Of course kids won’t eat real foods when the alternative is Takis and chocolate covered cereal. The same could be said for American adults I suppose.”

“There isn’t 1 nutritious food in there. I personally find it extremely worrisome that people find it okay to give children food like this everyday. It’s equivalent to poison.”

“As a teacher, I’m surprised that the school allows so much junk food, especially as snacks. Usually it’s fruit or nothing!”

“Okay. I’m not trying to be negative and I have no children so I can’t speak for that, but as a former overweight kid who was bullied their entire life, lunches like this is the problem here. I was unfortunately taught that this was how I was supposed to eat as well. Where’s the protein? There’s literally fat, carbs and more fat and carbs. Of course the kid likes this lunch it’s practically all sugar. Again, I just wish I would have been taught better at a younger age.”

However, there were also supportive comments from parents of picky eaters, and others who encouraged understanding rather than judgement.

“For everyone complaining about this mother…. As a teacher, seeing my students with lunches like this makes me happy. I can tell a lot of love and care went into this. So many parents do not have the time, energy, funds, or desire to do this for their children. If you have something negative to say, keep it to yourself. This momma loves her baby and you can tell!”

Nita herself replied to the negativity, saying:

“1. 90 percent of the people on this post don’t even have children
2. Have immature pallets.
3. Are negative and lonely.
4. Based on some of your pages I wouldn’t be so fast to comment. Based on your pages and profiles you have no room to say anything.
4. Half are to lazy to even attempt to pack any lunch and bragging on free school lunch. Bottom line those who are inspired follow us and know what is it. The rest of you are here for the drama. So keep it coming!”

It can be so difficult coming up with creative ways to get kids to eat their lunches – I have one child who eats everything and the other who often comes home not having touched his lunch! How do you make sure your kids eat their school lunches? Let us know in the comments below. 

  • People need to mind their own business and stop being to judgemental.

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  • MY kids are so fussy, so i completely understand. Better to have this food than no lunch at all.

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  • The packaged and /or processed ‘snacks’ are the real villains in this lunch. She just needs to know how to provide alternatives to those.

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  • I dread what I will pack for school lunch next year for my little girl. Both her and my son, 2 are super picky so honestly, whatever will make them eat, I’ll pack as I’ll be desperate! I just don’t want them to be hungry all day so will make sure they at least have a good brekkie and dinner to compensate for any bad food packed for school.

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  • Everybody circumstances are different and if that’s what works for her then so be it. I’m just happy my kids eat healthy food as well as junk food. We do limit the junk food

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  • I think it is hard to comment on what another mum does. My child will only eat white foods which can be challenging for school lunches. I have a friend who has an autistic boy who will only eat certain foods. I would never judge another mum. You have no idea what they are dealing with.

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  • Yes I am so glad I dont have to do school lunches anymore its so hard to get them to eat anything when at school

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  • shaming people is not the answer, how about offering support, ideas, education etc. It is certainly difficult to get some children to eat nutritious food, whereas others not so difficult.

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  • Making lunches for picky eaters is certainly a challenge ! I offer a different lunchbox each day of the week and keep my ears open for the comments and preferences of my children

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  • It’s not easy trying to make lunches different and not boring everyday. My child is a picky eater and fed is best. As long as i know she is eating something.

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