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She’s one of the richest women on the planet and still arguably the most influential. One thing Oprah Winfrey isn’t: is a mum. And she’s fine with that.

At 59, Oprah doesn’t regret her life without children.

If I had kids, my kids would hate me

she told The Hollywood Reporter. “They would have ended up on the equivalent of the Oprah show talking about me, because something [in my life] would have had to suffer and it would’ve probably been them.”

Born into poverty, Oprah has described herself as a promiscuous teen who at the age of 14 gave birth to a baby who only lived for a few weeks. Then, while still in high school, she scored a job in radio and later TV news. Her enormously successful talk-show ran for 25 years until 2011.

She says that her childhood best friend Gayle King, who is still her BFF today, dreamed of being married and having children (she ended up having two), but “While she was having those kind of daydreams, I was having daydreams about how I could be Martin Luther King.”

With hopes of moving from Chicago to California by the time she turns 60 in January, Oprah recently held a huge garage sale to declutter and raised a reported $600,000 for charity: “It was about making space for a new life, which is what I’m getting ready to create for myself in California.”

What’s also on the agenda: awards-show season. Winfrey is gathering buzz for her role in The Butler, co-starring Forrest Whitaker. According to Rolling Stone’s Peter Travers,

Winfrey is a full-throttle wonder, filling her role with heart, soul and a healing resilience.

Plus there are her surrogate girls to look after. In 2007 she established and still funds the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls in South Africa, and emails the girls every morning. “I’m responding to everything from ‘I’m feeling lost’ to ‘I need advice about a boy,’ ” she says, adding that she is stunned at how much the girls have come to mean to her.

The school boasts a 100% graduation rate and so far, 100% of those graduates have gone on to college. As she says,

I always felt that whatever you have, you have to share it.

  • thanks for sharing was a great read

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  • Just finding the reason Oprah gives a little hard to accept as the ‘real’ reason…

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  • every one to there own!

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  • Oprah is a very generous & caring person I will always admire her!

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  • i admire Oprah so much she has always been very honest and selfless

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  • Good life motto – “whatever you have, you have to share it” wish everyone lived like that!

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  • amazing lady

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  • this is a great article thanks for sharing

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  • i think Oprah is very forthright and honest with her views and for that she has to be admired!

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  • having children isn’t for everyone and she did the right thing why have children if your relationship will suffer?

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  • Oprah is such a inspirational women!


    • i would totally agree with this statement

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  • thank you so much for sharing

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  • Wonderful woman and very generous.

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  • Thanks for sharing this great article. Love it.

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  • love oprah! she is an inspiration to every woman!

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  • She’s such an inspiration to so many woman, to see she has been through so many struggles and made it so far! i miss her tv show. come back to tv oprah

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  • She made a decision and is happy with that I think this is a great message for everyone. We all need to do what is best for us and our families. I almost decided not to have kids and I am glad I did. I still have to work but I give my all to my baby girl, she comes before everything. However I really get why people choose not to have kids and focus on their careers.

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  • It seems a bit unfair on one level to say she isn;t a mum when she mothered a child whether it be for days or years she still has to cope with that loss everyday… she is an amazing person and so generous and selfless if all high profile and wealthy people were like here the world would be an amazing peaceful place

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  • Such an amazing woman, great article.

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  • oprah is amazing, thankyou for a great article

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