I think the younger generation do have a tougher time growing up these days. There’s online issues, drug issues, obesity issues. Things I never had to deal with. It’s also a lot harder to save and buy a house these days.

It comes down to individual circumstances, the child, the parents, the support network they may or may not have, where they live etc. There are so many variables.

Online safety is concerning to me. It has opened so many doorways to harassment and bullying. Mental health and teens is a concern too.

Things were simpler back then, we could go for walks and be home for the street lights coming on, we could go to the pool for the day unsupervised, now we can’t let the kids do that at all, very different times now

There are more thingsto be wary of today. School bullying is a big issue my daughter is kind and sensitive which makes her a target

I think there has always been a risk of your kids ending up in the wrong situations & growing up too fast, but these days it is truely so hard to keep them sheltered & away from negative influences & situations. The age of the internet has a lot to answer for…

I agree, they certainly don’t get the childhood we had as kids

I agree. Expectations are a lot higher now than when I was growing up.

Yes life is more complex and less carefree.

I have noticed the differences between my older children and the younger ones. There is a 30 year difference between oldest and youngest. From what I see I wish life was as simple as my childhood of the 70’s or my older children late 80’s-90’s. I fear for the future of my six year old twins and what kind of world they will live .

I don’t agree. I feel the helicopter parents are making harder for children. My youngsters knew where there limitations were, and didn’t over step them. Modern day parents don’t let their children explore, ride bikes on their own, play on activities because they night hurt themselves. What did you do when you were growing up? Can’t you let your children explore and do the same thing.

Have to agree, much harder these days with more to worry about

Unfortunately there are some parents who make life harder for young children too. I know one family that the parents expected one of their children to hang out his own washing – he couldn’t reach the line so he was using a reasonably short step ladder. They have a deep tub almost new washing machine with an old style agitator. Parts of clothing can get stuck under it. The same child fell head first into it trying to get washing out of it. One of them videoed it before they rescued him. I know they have to put their clean clothes away which is good. Once during hot weather he forgot to refill his school drink bottle. One of his parents filled his bottle with water from the tap. He could have been given cold water out of the fridge. He was only 5 – 6 years old when all of this happened. No wonder he is often tired and highly strung. The 11 y.o. has to clean the bathroom and toilet the 3 kids use. They are making them grow up too quickly.

I totally agree with this because the internet and social media can make it so easy for kids to bully while at home. There also seems to be alot more bullying then there was when I was growing up. Life seemed much simpler to kids back then than it does now

Agree 100%

Bullying from the rise of social media is the biggest issue most kids face today I’d say.

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  • • mom93821 replied
    • 07 Jun 2019 , 6:14 am

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  Social media and the implications of it is a a problem previous generations did not encounter.

I agree, but I think all this makes it harder for parents, too.

I think they do too. Just going for your driver licence is harder than it was when I was 18, and that’s just one example. All the online stuff might make it easier to learn, but adds so many complications as well. The more people and technology, the more complicated life can be.

An interesting article – safety and security is of course a top priority.