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Having a children’s birthday party at a park is pretty common – and so are the two top concerns: will it rain, and will there be enough spare tables? While we can’t control the weather, one family has decided to take control of the table situation, and it’s ruffled a few feathers.

A note was left on a public park table in the US, claiming it and the surrounding tables were reserved for a birthday party. The note, and an image of three tables draped in tablecloths were shared to reddit.

“Reserved for a birthday party,” the note read. “Please respect the space we’ve set aside and do not use our tables. This is a four year old’s party. Don’t be the one to mess it up. Thank you.”

Rude park note

The reddit user who uploaded the images arrived when the park opened, and said the tables were already set up, even though the park doesn’t take reservations – which means they had been claimed the night before.

“Busy public park on a hot Saturday/Labor Day weekend. Seems super entitled. Park has been open for 4 hours and no sign of them. All the other tables are full.”

The reddit thread has attracted more than five thousand comments, with most flabbergasted that anyone could be so selfish.

“No shame,” one person commented. “Be respectful about where and how you remove and place their things, but other than that, shared services by definition are shared. If they cannot be responsible about keeping track of time, that’s on them. I guess they have more adulting to learn. And who’s to say when folks who do this will ever return? People can forget about their laundry for days.”

“Nah. If having a designated space is that important, secure a private venue,” commented another. “Or, you have a handful of people actually there to hold it down. Can’t just drop sh*t off and act like it’s there to be reserved. Most cities have areas that can be reserved on the cheap specifically for the purpose of not hogging public picnic areas that are available on first come basis.”

What are your thoughts? Let us know in the comments below. 

  • How rude.
    I would just remove the table cloth, fold it and place it folded with the note on one of the other tables they have set up. Use whatever table you see fit. They have zero right to do what they have done. If they arrive tell them you waited for an hour before using it

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  • That is super annoying. If the note had said, we would appreciate these table to be used for a birthday party at 4pm, then that’s fine. If they have someone there (physically) reserving the table, that’s fine also. But to say you can’t use these tables for the whole day because we want them for a party in the evening is way to much! Also picnic blankets are fine for a party also.

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  • If they want to get a table or 2 get someone down there early and start setting up a few things. Do expect because you wrote a note that you are entitled to keep the tables. Don’t be so selfish. The world doesn’t revolve around you

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  • You need a spot for party get there early

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  • That’s rude. Get there early or hire a private space

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  • If they wanted the tables that badly they should have stayed with them. Or hired somewhere they could have a set space. Super entitled.

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  • hmmmmm quite rude

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  • So very rude! There must have been a nicer way to handle this.

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  • If they wanted the tables that desperately they should have had people sit there all day. A public park does not have special privileges and I’m sure the 4 year olds wouldn’t have cared where they were. Probably didn’t want to clean up a mess after the guest have all left.

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  • It’s strange that they didn’t put a time so people could use the space beforehand. The note isn’t written nicely – people are usually willing to help of you ask nicely.

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  • If I was there and the only table available was a reserved one, that was empty, I would sit there. If they want a table, plan the party early, get there early and secure a table. Don’t reserve public spaces

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  • get there early if you want a table and it should only be 1 table. Not many people sit at parties, especially a 4 yr olds party. Parents are too busy watching/running around after their kids, so reserving that many tables is selfish

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  • you definitely need to be there in person to claim a space like that. That’s really entitled!

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  • Wow. That’s so rude. If you want the tables you be there in person to claim them, not leave a note.

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  • Just rude and selfish. If you want a party in the park just get their early and take a table and maybe bring a couple of gold out tables and chairs so other people can enjoy the park facilities that aren’t at the party. I’ve had many parties and Christmas celebrations in the park where we bring a few tressal tables and chairs and rugs for everyone to enjoy and park ourselves away from the park provided table and chairs. Not hard…

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  • This is quite rude. It’s a public space that can’t be booked. If you want a particular seating area at a park, the polite thing to do is get their early and have someone sit and wait until the party arrives.

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  • Ha. I would have sat there anyway. It’s a public park. It reminds me of the time I had a neighbour who told me my friends couldn’t park their car on the street in front of his place. I laughed in his face and told him it was a public street and anyone could park there.

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  • This is rude. Its a public park and anyone can use the tables. If you want to secure a table you get there early and set up and stay with your stuff. You cant expect people not to use a public area for hours and hours before you even need it..

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  • Wow! Rude. How dare they? I would have felt the need to remove the note and just use the table. What if I’m there at 10am and the party starts at 2. I would be long gone by then. This is not okay and is such a sense of entitlement.

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  • The note is rude. That it was there the night before is rude. If I was going to do that, I’d maybe set tables up an hour early… but no note.

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