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An expecting mum has had to drive herself to hospital to give birth, after her husband’s celebratory drinks turned into an all-night bender.

And here’s the kicker – he knew his wife was giving birth the next day, because she was having a planned c-section.

Pauline shared her story on KIIS 101.1’s Will & Woody show, after they called out for listeners to share their stories detailing the worst things their partners have done when they’ve been close to giving birth. And Pauline’s story took the cake!

She explained that her c-section was booked for the next morning, so the birth of their baby was no surprise to her or her husband. But his friends decided to wet the baby’s head a little early.

“He knew we were booked in for the caesarean, we had to be at hospital from about 7 o’clock in the morning. All his mates took him out for a drink the night before and into the morning. So it was about 2.30 in the morning.”

But that’s not where the bender ended. Pauline’s husband ended up making a new mate on the way home from the night out, and they kicked on together.

“He gets a taxi home, tells the taxi driver that we’re having a baby the next day. So the taxi driver’s like, “Well, I’m ending my shift, I’ll take you out for a beer”. So the random taxi driver takes my husband out for a beer. We lived opposite a pub in Newcastle. So they went across the road to the pub for more than one beer mind you. Gets home at about 3.30 in the morning.”

She was then asked by the show’s hosts if her husband went with her to the hospital. Her answer?

“Yeah, but I had to drive, but yes he did.”

Ouch! Do you have a similar story about the worst thing your partner did just before you gave birth? We’d love to hear it, share it in the comments below!

  • So irresponsible! I love listening to Will & Woody.

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  • That sounds pretty selfish

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  • It might have been better/safer if she would have taken a taxi and presented hubby with the bill.

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  • I hope he feels at least a little bit sheepish.

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  • Wow i would have been utterly angry!

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  • Wow I would have been so angry with my husband if he did that
    I would have felt like he let me down and wasn’t ready to have a baby
    There are plenty of people I know that have benders as parents it’s definitely not your last night of freedom
    Having a child is a big responsibility but it’s not the end of your life

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  • On the one hand I want to say she wasn’t in labour and didn’t have any pain so it’s not like driving herself to the hospital is that big a deal!
    I can see how things might have gotten out of hand with the husband also. Peer pressure of “it’s your last night of freedom/with no responsibility/you won’t be able to do this again” etc and I guess with the cabby he may have been thinking what’s one more beer? However, what he should have realised is that he had a responsibility to his wife, to be home that night, to drink responsibly and to be there for her in the delivery room. All three of which he failed!
    I’ve seen a man reading a book whilst his wife was in labour waiting to be admitted. My brother took the bed in the delivery room so he could nap, whilst his ex wife was in labour. She ended up needing an emergency caesarean by the end

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  • Curse that hubby! My husband had a bender while I was about 8 months pregnant. I was not impressed.

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  • I would have never let my husband live it down if that happened to me!!!

    When I went into labour with my first child at 1am the first thing my husband did was take the rubbish out lol out of shock!!! Lol!!! I remind him about it that day all the time.

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  • Wow… how very selfish.
    Lucky she didn’t go into labour earlier!
    I would have been fuming.

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  • I was physically unable to drive by that late in my pregnancies – I couldn’t fit behind the wheel!

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  • Oh dear. Luckily I don’t have a story like that to share.

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  • Situations like this happen more often than any of us would like to admit.

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