I stopped bleeding at 3 weeks after a natural birth. In the 4th week was when we tried doing it again.
We both think it felt better, once the pain had gone away anyway.
We didn’t lose any connection which I am so grateful for because I was concerned about that.

I had a c section on both of my youngest sons. We did not really waited that long. I guess roughly 9 weeks but it always depends on how you feel. I have an IUD inserted on the last pregnancy and seems like affecting my sexual drives. If you have some issues, ask your Gp. Always listen to your body. You always knows best.