THlS lS HEAVEN - Real Mum story on MoM

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On Friday my Kids went to their dads for the weekend, for the first time in 20 odd years have I have a bit of actually me time, This was a time I didn’t have to wake up early and tend to breakfast or organise tea or do any washing this was actually all about me Totally awesome. So after reading a bit of MOM and some tips about taking control of me, I set out to do just that have a bit of me time, so on Saturday I did absolutely nothing no cleaning no dinner just me and my company, I watched a bit of tv and snacked on whatever I wanted to without being told I get fat or that’s bad for you, then I laid in bed and listened to the peacefulness that was around no screaming kids wanting this and that, total bliss, just the crackling of the wood fire and the singing of the birds, I know this won’t last so I am soaking it up while I can. So while I think about what I want out of life I realise this is it, just me being totally selfish or am I. This is what everyone should have a Me time without distraction of the kids the phone (which I turned off so I wouldn’t be distracted) or anything. While I totally adore my kids and couldn’t live without them, this was a time to get in touch with me and who I am, I realised im not just a mother I am a human who needs to be who I am, I still haven’t worked out that bit, but I sure with time I will, so I am already planning my next me time, I might go out and mingle with friends or family with the kids, so I do have the chance to be me. So if any one out there needs me time I would say go for it, it does wonders for the soul, I could almost mistake this for being heaven will keep you posted on my next me time

Posted by luckymom, 14th July 2013

13 Comments

- - 4littlemunchkins said
  - 10 Oct 2015
    10:14 pm
It’s important as mothers that we look after ourselves as well.

- - Kell said
  - 10 Jun 2015
    7:22 pm
Isn’t it sad that we have those feelings of guilt as soon as it is about US … Promise We will have more Me time!

- - mom113055 said
  - 27 Apr 2015
    12:14 pm
nice to read stories on this great site

- - mom113055 said
  - 25 Apr 2015
    7:55 pm
top storie great

- - mom113055 said
  - 23 Apr 2015
    3:33 pm
i like reading these stories

- - mom113055 said
  - 21 Mar 2015
    1:54 pm
great

- - mom57522 said
  - 05 Jan 2015
    9:56 pm
Enjoy your time off, the kids are probably having a ball.

- - mom94125 said
  - 03 Jan 2015
    12:02 am
personally i would be miserable and want my kids around…lol but i think that you are fine and it is good to enjoy a break. don’t feel bad for enjoying it. i bet the kids are having a blast doing whatever they are doing so make the most of your free time.

- - cherz said
  - 24 Jun 2014
    6:38 pm
Good on you..when the opportunity arises grab it. Me time now and again is good for the soul and makes for a better person.

- - meimei said
  - 26 May 2014
    4:29 pm
Looks like you very enjoy your Me time. Need to try it too hihi…

- - sweetbell said
  - 16 Jul 2013
    10:36 am
That’s fantastic hun. You need some time on your own to do the things you want to do, take it from me having 4 children on the weekend I do nothing and just put my feet up and relax hun

- - premmiemum said
  - 15 Jul 2013
    8:40 am
Me time… wow I have forgot what it feels like. Glad to hear you got some and enjoyed good for you mumma and thanks for the inspiration to find some for myself

- - chantellmaree said
  - 14 Jul 2013
    1:00 pm
I think it’s very important too have me time, with 5 kids I don’t get very much but I try too do something for myself at least once a week.. Not selfish at all its part of balancing your own needs