good and nice story

My only advice is not to threaten something unless you are willing to follow through with the punishment. I have sat my children in time out in the middle of the supermarket when they misbehaved and have thrown toys in the bin that weren’t picked up after several warnings. I can tell you, I’ve only done them once (and my floor are clean!). It’s a hard age though – be patient and forgiving (on yourself).

i agree with the last comment who cares what people think

Would you consider a leash? I know some judgemental people would stare but at least you keep your kids safe!!

How about a reward chart? Every night he spends in his own bed, he gets a sticker. When he gets 5 or 10 stickers, let him choose a bigger reward. Or maybe a special toy for bedtime only, like a nightlight or glow in the dark cuddly toy?

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  • • mom57522 replied
    • 09 Jan 2015 , 7:45 pm

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  I have found reward charts to be helpful in the past.

There are children’s leads that may help with the running off but seems to me as though the lead may help. You may find it not that easy transitioning him from your bed to cot as he is 3 but perhaps he may be big enough for a bed of his own & you could lie with him reading to him, stroking his head, it may take a while & per serverence is a must, good luck hun