I take my hats off to teachers being able to get through their day with the way kids are nowadays. Honestly, I know exactly the type of parent that this teacher is talking about. Instead of proper discipline we tell our kids things like ‘that’s not very nice’ and ‘don’t do that’. The words have little affect on the kids because they know that most parents won’t follow up on it. Plus all of the added disadvantages of kids having too much technology and having to monitor that in class! At my kid’s primary school they literally had zero homework and my daughter is still struggling to spell.

Unfortunately, there is now no respect or manners. This has to come from the parents. It is not the teachers job to teach these basics. My hat goes off to all those wonderful people who choose to be teachers.

I remember the days when it was us kids shitting ourselves on parent teacher night, not the teachers. My daughter’s school had a security guard present on parent teacher nights! I remember standing in line and parents would be insisting that their child was not an asshole and getting really loud about it. As one parent stormed by us, my child’s dad stopped her and said “have a look at my daughter’s eye. your son gave her thatblack eye, he’s a bully to the kids and I wouldn’t be surprised if he learnt it from you!” When it was our turn to sit down with the teacher, she thanked him.

Back in my day, our parents didn’t allow us to get away with anything. Before we left the house, we were told what our punishment would be if our teachers had anything negative to say and when we got home, the punishment commenced. We soon learnt to respect teachers.

My youngest daughter is a teacher and a darn good one that is loved by her students. In a school where the kids had very bad attendance she managed to change that. She had some problem students with parents that cared and were awesome but she also had parents that just wanted to lay blame and say their kids were prefect.

I agree and disagree. I am a youth mentor in high schools. And there are some great teachers and some not so great. Respect is a 2way street. And in my experience there are some teachers who need to rethink if they are in the right industry or maybe it is time to retire. We can’t tar all parents with the same brush nor teachers

As a teacher, I sympathise with this. I love teaching but parents and paperwork make it so difficult.

The teachers can only teach reading, writing, arithmetic and about history. It’s very hard to teach if the children don’t even want to try. Saying that, I don’t believe it’s as difficult in Australia. Children also need to learn manners from their parents and to do their homework.

I think it was a good choice that she retired early.

I’ve met too many parents who think teachers are responsible for teaching their kids everything from manners up. So wrong. They are your kids you should want the best for them and teach them to treat others as they would like to be treated.

My teacher friends say the same thing, they love teaching but cannot handle some of the parents.

Teachers are doing a great job. Some parents are the big issue and don’t put the effort into their kids and expect teachers to do it all.

Preach!
People who bash on teachers need to step into a classroom. Preferably in a low socio-economic demographic to truly understand what goes on.
Until someone’s had that experience, they need to stfu and let the teacher teach.

All the money in the world would not be enough if I were a teacher in this day and age. I don’t need to be or talk to teachers to know how bad it is, I have watched and heard children swearing at their parents, refusing to do homework, refusing to go to school and being thorough abominable. If they are this way at home, how much worse are they at school. It isn’t hard to teach your own child some respect – thank you and please when they get something, To respect people who are in uniform because they are they to help and assist you and stamp out crime which damages all of us – uniform is ambos and nurses not just police and defence force personnel. It is not enough to say parents are both working so they don’t have time to bring their child up respectfully – if you don’t have the time for your own child then don’t have one.

So agree. I have some many relatives who are teachers and my sister has been in the profession for over 50 years. She has now retired. She has stated that teaching children will now never be the same. Parents have alot to answer to. It’s a nightmare.

I agree with this teacher’s assessment. I am more of an old school parenting method as that’s how I was raised and it didn’t harm me. All of these parents letting the kids decide and just talking to them softly and saying ‘don’t do that, that’s naughty’ and not actually following up with anything, is just plain weak and doesn’t teach the kids anything. They are literally pushing the boundaries to see what they can get away with and discover they can get away with everything! We as parents are there to guide and teach our children how to function in the world. You can’t just sit back and let them decide what to do when they are not mature enough to do so, they’re children!

I have to admit, I’d struggle to be a highschool teacher..

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  • • Ellen replied
    • 11 Jul 2024 , 7:54 am

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  Aw bless, wishing you patience and wisdom !

It is a good idea to leave a profession before burning out and make choices to move in other directions.

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  • • mom93821 replied
    • 11 Jul 2024 , 8:47 am

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  It is a good idea to change careers and do other interesting things.

I work in a school. My grandparents and my mum and some uncles and aunts were/are teachers.
Schools looks so very very different today than they have in the past.
I agree that parents need to be parenting their kids – discipline (I don’t mean beating your kids either by that) and giving them rules and boundaries and consequences.
Too many kids in schools don’t care about the rules or consequences at school. They disrupt classrooms so that the teachers cannot teach and those who want to learn are finding it hard to do so.
And the comment in the article about the teacher trying a private school? I work in a private school. Just because parents have money does not mean their kids behave any better than the public school (I’ve worked in public schools too).

It really scares me with how the world is becoming these days.

I think it’s both parties.
Parents need to teach their kids to behave and teachers also need to “teach” – including respect and manners.