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How many times have you thought to yourself ‘I look terrible today!’? How would you feel if you were brave enough to put up a video of yourself on YouTube and people told you that they thought you looked disgusting? One beauty blogger did just that and the comments she has received, you wouldn’t wish on your worst enemy.

This is one video that everyone needs to see, it’s strong, it’s powerful and it’s real. Beauty blogger Em Ford, recently posted this video to her YouTube channel shaming commenters who had taunted her. The comments are unbelievably hurtful and it has a profound impact on Em Ford as you can see in this clip.

Em has released this video to promote the message of ‘you are beautiful, no matter what’ and it’s one message I am certainly going to be sharing with my two little girls.

The part of this video that throws me the most is the fact that even when Em has a full face of make-up there are still haters out there, saying nasty hurtful comments. It seems that no matter what you do, there will always be an army of ‘keyboard warriors’ who can sit in the comfort of their own homes, hiding behind their computers, tablets and phones abusing people who are MUCH braver than them. At what point does this despicable behavior start to spill out into the ‘real’ world?

When did society become so nasty and hateful? How on earth am I going to equip my children to deal with nastiness like this? SHARE your thoughts with us in the comments below.

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  • A really interesting article! Thanks for this!

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  • That’s shocking! Internet trolls, gutless sad lifeless people. How did they get to be so hard and cruel and horrible

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  • she looks worried and upet and stressful

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  • wow how can people be so cruel. we need to teach our children kindness and acceptance so that this kind of bullying doesnt continue,

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  • OMG

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  • it is a poowerful video

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  • the first time i saw this video it brought me to tears. such a powerful and moving video tht proves just how judgemental and critical of eachother we all are.

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  • I just treat others how i like to be treated. my daughter doesnt even here me call myself nasty names if i can help it, like oh i feel fat or am fat etc
    If my daughter uses the word fat i tell his its not a nice way of speaking about someone and she should use Big instead, i was bullied at school alot so I just want my children to not be bullied or grow up thinking its ok to bully someone on there looks.

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  • Video won’t load -nice music but black screen :(

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  • very nice

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  • it s just great to read and look at these things

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  • How awful to say these things and how brave is Em?
    This is one reason that I don\’t want to get involved in \’Socal\’ media – it appears to be far too negative for me.

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  • You know its an interesting thing that I can remember my mother making a comment many years ago when Princess Anne had given birth to her first child and was leaving the hospital. In those days it was pre baby car seats and Princess Anne sat in the back seat while holding the baby and her husband drive the car. The media commented about her sitting in the back seat away from her husband. My Mum said “No matter what she did she couldnt win…if she had sat in the front holding the baby I bet they would have said that she should have put her seat belt on but would the baby be safe if there was an accident. She sat in the back so the baby was safer” ( such was the thoughts of the day) …..
    I think people have always been negative and bitchy its just that now they can do it and feel that no one knows who they are so they can be even more nasty.

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  • Wow. What can I say but wow.
    Such a powerful message.
    People can be so mean when they hide themselves behind social media.
    Unacceptable.
    Such a brave person.

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  • It\’s disgusting what people said about this woman, especially since they are hiding behind the anonymity of the internet. But I am not surprised.
    I try to teach my kids its not about looks, but what is inside that counts. I hope it makes a difference.

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  • This concerns me as a mother of a young girl. Society is not good to young girls.

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  • I shared this video earlier in the week. I was quite disturbed by the nasty commentary and vitriole that came from behind a keyboard. It was a really powerful video that this woman was so bold to share. Amazing.

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  • The amount of insecure people out there throwing nasty comments around is phenomenal I believe.

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  • yes i was shocked! I remember going through high-school and yes you would notice people with this but you would never ever say anything about it and you wouldn’t treat your friends differently. You would only ask people what they were using to get rid of them because you wanted to get rid of yours. I don’t know what kind of world the kids are growing up in that this sort of abuse, means nothing! You can talk so horribly and no-one cares. Everyone attacked this girl but no-one said that this behaviour is not on. People need to supervise their kids. People need to keep more of their lives to themselves. People need some damn compassion! Why are we not trying to tell this girl that it is ok and that she is still A GREAT PERSON! society places no value on your personality and your worth comes from your looks! celeb role models aren’t real role models. They promote products, not self esteem.

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  • Wow just WOW
    where do people get off judging someone else because of how they look. I could never in a million years imagine being so mean

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