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Every year parents agonise over the right time to send their kids to school. Due to the cut-off dates for starting school in some states, kids can either start kindergarten at 4 years old turning 5 in the first year or else one year older at 5 years old, turning 6.

It’s been the growing trend over the last few years to hold kids back from starting school until they are on the older side of the scale. The question of whether you should send early or late pops up regularly on social media without fail. In most cases, the majority of parents recommend giving kids an extra year of play, as opposed to sending them to school early. Teachers and other educational experts often weigh into the debate and while they emphasise that each child is different, most will recommend sending when the child is more mature.

While more experienced parents say that you won’t ever regret holding back your child, one mum confided that she had chosen to keep her child back from starting school and regretted it.

No Long Term Academic Advantage

While the research into the effects of sending your child early or later to school fluctuates, a recent study has found that there is zero “long-term academic advantage gained from holding a child back from starting school,” as reported in SMH.

Kids who started school earlier were slightly behind in reading and maths after three years, but this disadvantage diminished in years 5 and 7 and by year, it had disappeared completely and measured the same level as their peers, said University of New England researcher Sally Larsen.

Age Is Not The Major Factor When It Comes To Success

Ms Larsen said that these results indicated that the learning in the school has more impact on literacy and numeracy than age differences.

This recent study used data to examine whether delayed school entry was associated with higher achievement in NAPLAN reading and numeracy tests.

“We interpret it as time spent in school is doing what it’s supposed to be doing, so those relative age differences matter less,” said Ms Larsen, who is a PhD candidate.

“They’re getting the same content, so whatever maturity advantage the older kids have, the other kids do catch up,” she added.

BUT…Each Child Is Different

Despite this new research, parents need to evaluate their children as individuals as each child is different.

Let’s have a quick look at the pro’s and cons of each option:

Positives to a delayed start:

  • They are more mature.
  • They are the oldest in the classroom.
  • They perform better academically.
  • They have more confidence.

Negatives to a delayed start:

  • It can be hard if all your child’s friends start school and he or she is left behind.
  • They might get irritated with their younger peers in the class.
  • The advantage the child had at the beginning of their school careers will eventually fade when the other kids start catching up.

It can be overwhelming for parents, however, you know your child best. You know what your child is capable of. You have seen your child at their best and at their worst. It is important to trust yourself and your instinct as a parent.

When In Doubt…Give Them An Extra Year Of Play

Dr. Nadia Louw, Educational Psychologist says that when you are in doubt, keep them back.

She says that as parents you might feel like you are giving your child an academic edge, but it can cause untold damage if they are not ready for formal education. “It is like forcing a little fledgling from the nest before its wings are fully developed.”

“The impact on the child’s academic self-concept and ability to learn can be great. So parents have to think carefully when making this decision.” She also says every child is different and it really depends on them.

Did you send your child to school early or did you give them an extra year of play? Have you found that it has had a significant impact on them either way? Tell us in the comments below.

 

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  • Each child is different. My eldest could have started school at age 3 and she would have loved it. She was spelling words like Elephant at 3yrs old.
    My second daughter would have been better starting school at perhaps 6 and my youngest at 5.

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  • 4 is just too young. Even if academically they are up to it, socially and emotionally they are not. You can 100% tell who started school too early.

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  • Never thought of holding a child back… it is up to the individuals

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  • My daughter is from July and I think we will hold her a year…

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  • I think every parents will know when it’s time for their little one to attend school or pull them back.

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  • This article focuses a lot on the academic results, however, socially I believe it is much more beneficial for children to start later. I have worked in schools and at the start of the year it is always easy to tell which ones are the four and a half year old preps. Yes they do catch up……a little, but all of that goes out the window again once they hit high school and year 8. Even using the term ‘hold them back’ is putting a negative connotation there – that starting them when they are a little older is somehow restricting or delaying their development – that is a load of rubbish. Let them be little.

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  • My son went to school early in Vic – 4 turning 5 in April. His preschool agreed and we didn’t think we could hold him back. We did learn age 10 that he had high functioning autism which then explained many issues that were not age-related.

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  • In QLD the cutback is end of June. I have one August daughter and May son. They’re 21 months apart. The August one will be one of the oldest one in her class, while for my May boy, we might hold him back, so instead of a year apart from his sister, they’ll be 2 grades apart. Nothing hurts to let him have extra year to play (and to go to adulthood reality check)

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  • I think that they are in school for a big enough part of their lives already. I don’t see any harm in waiting until they are 5, people are trying to start earlier and earlier these days.

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  • You can’t get back that year of your baby being at home with you. Don’t send kids to school when they aren’t ready, spend time with them before they grow up too much!

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  • My son was born a few weeks ago (January baby) and leople have already asked me if I’ll hold him back. I’m in Vic so the limit is end of April

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  • It’s really all about the child as each is an individual and then make the choice from there.

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  • I had one start late and one start early, only time will tell

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  • I’ve often wondered why you can hold your kids back here in Australia as it’s not a thing in the UK, and kids go to school at 4 or early 5

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  • I sent mine to school before he turned 5 because he was ready and bored at kinder

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  • Totally agree with the each child is different comment. Some children are so ready to start and other will cope better if they start later. Sometime you don’t get the choice as there is a cut off date and if your child’s birthday doesn’t fall before the cut off they have to wait. My youngest was sooo ready to start.

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  • I send my son early.At first i was worried about as he left behind from learning when he was in primary.But now he is fine.

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  • Sent my son early at 4 turning 5 and what a mistake that was, my darling son has a learning disability that couldn’t be correctly diagnosed till part way through year 1.
    Learnt my lesson, my daughter started on time for 5 turning 6 and I’ll do the same for my second son.

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  • My children are on the younger end of the scale and we didn’t keep them back. One child thrived with the social and educational side whilst my youngest struggle through prep and grade 1 and seemed to have caught up during home schooling through covid. It was the break she needed. We did the school work from home and reading everyday as always but she improved drastically in that time of not being at school for 6 hrs a day. Certainly depends on the child and a parent has to go with their gut if they think they are ready or not.

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  • I’m not sure what I will do, my son is born in october so I think he would be 4 and 3 months when he starts. It all depends on how he is at that stage in his life


    • i don’t he will go to school till he is able to as i’m pretty sure the cut off is in june or july

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