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You’ve probably heard of pet owners using spray bottles filled with water to keep cheeky pets in line, but what about using the same method on a child?

An aunt decided to try it on her ‘monster’ nephew, and it’s now caused issues in the family – but was she really in the wrong?

She says while she adores her six-year-old nephew, he’s naughty, and doesn’t seems to know any boundaries.

“My nephew is a rainbow baby,” the woman explained on reddit. “My sister had a lot of trouble conceiving and he was kind of a miracle. She was 42 when she finally managed to give birth. She was on bed rest for the last three months of her pregnancy.

“My nephew is now six and, while I love him, he is a monster. He throws tantrums when things don’t go his way. He screams if he loses playing a game. He refuses to understand why he can’t ride my seven year old St Bernard.

“And he thinks any food is his. My husband is diabetic and he loves cookies. I found a bakery that makes amazing sugar free cookies but they are expensive. I budget for them because my husband deserves his treats when he gets home from work.”

The woman’s sister and nephew were recently visiting, with the six-year-old ‘running around like a squirrel’.

“He tripped and started crying so my sister picked him up. He saw the cookie container on the counter and started asking for some. I said no that they were special cookies for his uncle. I offered him a regular cookie or some fruit but he got all upset that he was being denied. My sister asked if he could please have a cookie. I relented and gave him one. He took a bite and said it was yucky and threw it on the ground. I was a little upset.

“A little while later he came back and asked for another cookie. I said no. My sister said to just give him one. I told her no, he wasted the last one. He started screaming that he wanted a cookie. I stood my ground. He eventually went away.”

But the little cookie monster wasn’t deterred. He returned later, looking for another cookie.

“Next time he came he didn’t ask. He just went for the container. I grabbed the spray bottle I use to keep the cat off the counter. I gave him a couple of squirts and said ‘NO’. He got startled and ran away. My sister said her son isn’t an animal to be reprimanded with water. The next time he came into the kitchen I put my hand on the spray bottle. He didn’t even look at the counter and he went away.

“My sister called my parents to tell on me for treating her kid like that. They are mad at me for not giving in to the poor baby.”

The woman now wants to know if she was in the wrong. What do you think? Let us know in the comments below. 

  • I would not have used the spray bottle. I’m sure there are other ways of discipling him.

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  • Maybe not the gentlest method but clearly effective. And you use the tools you have available. Stating clear boundaries wasn’t working. Next steps were taken. I support aunt here

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  • You are definitely not in the wrong. You squirted him once and he learnt a lesson. It’s a much better idea than yelling at him or (heaven forbid) smacking him. Your sister and the rest of the family should understand that what you did was the best way to handle the situation. I personally would have told him he could eat the cookie that he threw away. I congratulate you on the way you handled the situation. Your home, your rules

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  • I think you’re awesome! Full respect! He is now showing more respect to you than he does to his own mother.

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  • I say we’ll done to you! The spray bottle is not going to hurt him and obviously nothing else works

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  • No cookies and no spray bottle.

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  • Shouldn’t have used a spray bottle, but also she should have put the cookies away out of sight..

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  • Sounds like a terror! Awkward situation

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  • I had a little laugh at this. I think it was a great way…… and it worked!

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  • Children need boundaries. He will respect you more, he obviously doesn’t respect his mum and so runs rings around her. I say, good on you.

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  • Your sister may feel she has to give in to him but you certainly don’t. He will respect the boundaries in your house now. The water bottle was a one off thing so no harm done and it worked.

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  • I sure wouldn’t have given him a cookie and would have hidden the cookie container out of side or lock it away. I wouldn’t have used the spray bottle and I wouldn’t have give in to my sister either.

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  • Love this. Pull that kid into line! Good on you for doing so. It didn’t hurry the kid just startled him. Clever I say.

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  • Hahaha this is the best! I love it! I feel like consequences for actions are necessary – positive reinforcement for good behaviour, discipline for other behaviour. A spray bottle didn’t hurt him in any way at all and worked a treat. He won’t do it again, and he won’t be scarred from physical abuse. I say good job on standing your ground!

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  • Good on you, the spray bottle worked well. Oh and for your sister, a grown adult, to ring mum to whinge, oh my, little hope for the kid. Your home, you set the boundaries.

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  • Lol!!!
    The boy is a brat and needs to learn some manners. Just because a child is a rainbow baby doesn’t mean they should act in any way they like, they still need to learn that there are things called rules and boundaries that need to be followed.

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  • The kid is a brat and needs to learn manners, but I’m not sure this is the best way to do it. (I wouldn’t have given him the cookie, though.)

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  • This is not something I would do but each to their own.

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  • Hey, it worked haha and clearly your sister has made no efforts to teach him he can’t always get his way

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