Why This Photo Attracted Online Trolls

Constance Hall has hit back at ‘mummy shamers’ who slammed a photo of her taken after giving birth to newborn son, Raja Wolf.

The controversial blogger, 34, was alerted by ‘concerned Queens’ about the uproar surrounding the pic and she decided to address the issue head-on.

But can you see what they have taken issue with?

Many of her followers saw the photo on Facebook and said that it was ‘poor parenting’ for her to be on her phone and drinking a soft drink rather than holding her newborn son.

Constance soon addressed the issue saying, ‘Yesterday I posted a picture of myself on the phone the day my son was born,’ she explained underneath the image.

“And of course it was followed by a few f#ckers and their stuck up judgments about what I was doing on my phone instead of spending my every second doting and being the eternally grateful goddess mother..

“And then that was met with beautiful Queens defending me with comments like “she could be FaceTiming her other kids or family..”
I didn’t even know that any of this had happened until upset Queens were messaging me.

“The truth is…. it’s nobodies business what a mother is doing on her phone the day she gives birth, if she’s sending her children and mother photos of the baby or googling tit jobs in Thailand it’s not your business.

“In fact the way another mother is mothering…… is not your problem..

“Just to clarify for you here are 2 things that are your problems.

“1, if a child is being abused. Sexually, mentally, physically, Or neglected, starved or not having their medical needs met. By ALL means, intervene. And when I say intervene I mean… Call the department of child protective services, do NOT bitch and moan on Facebook. This is YOUR problem.

“It’s all of our problems when children need a voice and we have that voice.

“And 2, YOUR children. They are your problem, how you raise them, what YOUR doing on your phone, what kind of a mother YOU are.

“But all other aspects of mothering… Ain’t your f#cking problem.

“So thank you Queens who came into bat for me, yet it’s completely unnecessary.”

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19 Comments

- - meedee said
  - 21 Sep 2022
    12:14 pm
WTG….. 100% agree. After going though a labour im thinking you deserve a soft drink and a few minutes to yourself.

- - Blossom said
  - 18 Sep 2018
    1:38 am
I’m no prude but the language is a bit strong in the article.
At least the drink isn’t alcohol. She could have been replying to messages she had received congratulating them on the birth of their baby. Sometimes you let one person know something and word spreads fast.

- - BellaB said
  - 11 Jul 2018
    4:10 pm
I don’t much like Constance Hall, but nor do I think this is ny of anyone else’s business.

- - ella12 said
  - 10 Jul 2018
    11:33 am
Yes she is right, it is her business and people shouldn’t be judgmental.

- - rovermum said
  - 09 Jul 2018
    9:09 am
Well said. No-one knows of her birth story and it’s nobody’s business. Maybe her blood sugar was low and a quick fix was soft drink maybe even provided by the hospital!! Maybe she is checking in on her kids, face timing them, whatever? Why is it anybody’s business? Let’s celebrate the Dad in the room bonding with his child. Let’s celebrate another child born into the world who is wanted and will be loved.

- - mom111059 said
  - 08 Jul 2018
    4:18 pm
Wish people would mind their own business. Constance had just done all the hard work giving birth.

- - tessie said
  - 07 Jul 2018
    9:32 am
You tell ’em. By the way, congratulations on the birth of Raja.

- - rachel1970 said
  - 06 Jul 2018
    1:39 pm
People are just so judgemental.

- - Diann said
  - 06 Jul 2018
    5:40 am
This is how social media can be so very bad. People just get wrapped up in it and take it so very personal.

- - mom265671 said
  - 06 Jul 2018
    12:19 am
People are too judgemental, please leave opinions at the door

- - squeekums said
  - 05 Jul 2018
    10:25 pm
i did the same thing when kiddo was born, i even had a double cheeseburger
people need to get a life

- - mom69841 said
  - 05 Jul 2018
    8:47 pm
And is daddy not looking after the child and having bonding time?

- - curlytops said
  - 05 Jul 2018
    6:09 pm
It says she is a controversial blogger – say no more!

- - kyliecimen said
  - 05 Jul 2018
    5:21 pm
Why anyone cares or feels the need to judge what this woman does is something I just don’t understand!

- - Cookfromscratchmum said
  - 05 Jul 2018
    7:40 am
Why has everyone just become so judgemental

- - mom93821 said
  - 05 Jul 2018
    6:38 am
Sadly this is just fodder for trolls! It must be a shame to view an image and just look for an opportunity to find fault and judge. It is a telephone! A telephone is used to call and contact people abut the birth of a child and to keep in contact with children and family members.

- - Staceylee101 said
  - 04 Jul 2018
    9:23 pm
There is nothing wrong with what I see, I’d be doing the same!

- - becstalou said
  - 04 Jul 2018
    6:57 pm
Exactly mind your own business and save your concern for where it is needed and then act how it’s needed. Kindness is everything.

- - mom90758 said
  - 04 Jul 2018
    6:44 pm
She’s probably having her moment of quietness. What’s wrong with that?