It would have been a great idea to call the center management when you got home and lodge a complaint and perhaps post publicly on their facvebook page asking for change. This is not good enough.

Where else was he supposed to go?

It’s disgusting they way the world has become!

You are absolutely NOT in the wrong. It’s about time these shopping centres got with the times and made change tables available in all restrooms. I also think you had no need to run away either, there would surely have been others there who would have supported your actions. Good on you I say.

What a champion. Doing what he had to do with whatever was available to him. If anything the screaming lady needs to take a chill pill and suss out the situation before losing her s*#t.

If there is not changing table in men toilet i don’t see a problem with taking baby to women toilet.

Poor guy, he did everything he could. i wouldn’t have run from the employee though, it didn’t look good. My husband said this is a common thing not having a change table in the mens room

I don’t think this man is in the wrong at all. Surely the woman who went into the toilets could see that he had a baby with him and what he was doing, especially if the baby way on a change table. I understand that she might have got a freight when she walked into the ladies toilets and saw a man in there but wake up to yourself and look at what he was doing!
It’s disappointing that there wasn’t at least a disabled toilet, which could have had a change table to save this sort of embarrassment.
What did the staff member think she was going to achieve by yelling out to this Dad? Really. Yell at him when she didn’t sound very helpful to him in the first place.

I feel for the poor dad. He had no option. There should be a parents baby change table in all the disabled toilets. They are large enough.

What else was he supposed to do?! I can’t believe that there isn’t change mats in both male and female toilets or at least a parent room/disabled toilet with a change mat.
He did the right thing and that woman was overreacting!

How great it is to see this man taking his son out shopping! If he had to go to the ladies room to find a change table to change is son’s nappy then so be it. That lady should have applauded him, not ran out screaming that there was a man in there! Surely she could have seen that he had a baby with him. I doubt there would be very few change tables in the Men’s toilets! I’ve seen some in disabled toilets. My ex husband never took my kids out without me when they were little, he had this idea in his head that changing their nappies was disgusting and because we had 3 daughters he shouldn’t have been expected to clean them up and change their nappies because of them being girls. I commend this man for taking his son out and doing all that he could to change his son’s nappy, to clean him up and keep him comfortable.

The only thing I would have done if I’d walked into the ladies room while he was changing his son I would have waited till he’d finished before I used the toilet. The only one’s who are the assholes are the female employee who told him to recheck the men’s room then taking off and the establishment for not supplying a parent’s room to allow both men and women to change their baby’s nappies. I wouldn’t have liked to place my child on a counter that wasn’t fit to change a baby on.

Good on him! I wouldn’t care if I saw this happening

It would not bother me at all about a nappy being changed. I would have stood my ground when yelled at!

He had no perfect option – I think he was in the right.

What the actual f is wrong with people? People really need to mind their own business. Good on him for changing the baby’s nappy in a safe, hopefully sanitary area.

There was no one else in there at the time, I don’t see the issue. I would have offered some help if I was that woman

That is such a terrible reaction from the woman. Get over yourself! Absolutely nothing wrong with what the dad did. Should not have been subjected to that. A poo nappy change is hard enough as it is ????

Dad did the best thing he could at the time, maybe it’s time shopping centres added change tables in men’s toilets if they don’t yave a parents room.

Ohh the dad did as best as he could! It’s not easy with a poopy baby and you can’t change it without a sturdy change table without making a mess! There are sometimes no change tables which is worse! In this case I use the car, not ideal.