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August 5, 2025

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Dental visits can be tricky for neurodivergent kids, but small changes can make a big difference. In support of Dental Health Week, we asked an expert about how to support calm, positive experiences at every step.

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Associate Professor Mihiri Silva is the Director of Graduate Research and Interim Director of Research at the Melbourne Dental School, University of Melbourne. Mihiri is also a Consultant Paediatric Dentist and the Research Lead for the Department of Dentistry, Royal Children’s Hospital, Melbourne and an Honorary Research Fellow (Manager) at the Murdoch Children’s Research Institute. Mihiri’s research ranges from data analytics to causal inference and qualitative research and seeks to understand and improve the oral health of children.

Child high-fiving her dentist.
Dental professionals are trained to help children feel at ease. Image: Canva

Neurodivergent children often experience the world differently from others, and a trip to the dentist may present a whole other level of anxiety and fear.

‘Neurodivergent’ is a term commonly used to describe autistic children, though autistic behaviours vary considerably in their severity and type.

“It’s important to know how we can support neurodivergent children, or those with sensory challenges, to have good oral health, and this involves working to suit individual preferences as much as possible.”

Mihiri Silva, Paediatric Dentist, Melbourne Dental School

Build healthy routines early

Establishing good oral health habits like twice-daily toothbrushing, limiting sugary foods and drinks, and regular dental visits is important throughout childhood, and particularly for children with developmental concerns or disability.

“One of the most common concerns relates to the taste and texture of toothpaste which can make toothbrushing a really stressful event and almost like a battle at times. But there are now non-foaming and flavour-free fluoride toothpastes in the supermarket which have really changed this for some children.”

Mihiri Silva, Paediatric Dentist, Melbourne Dental School

In addition, parents can remind, encourage and assist with toothbrushing. Mindful that children love to copy adult behaviours, modelling good oral hygiene habits at home is helpful, with parents leading the way by heading to the basin twice a day themselves for brushing and flossing. Using visual schedules and rewards may also help establish positive routines.

Child brushing her teeth.
Set kids up with good habits early. Image: Canva

Dentists can help with dietary issues

Neurodivergent children may also have selective diets, and changing dietary patterns according to their needs and wishes can be challenging for parents and carers. But dentists and dental teams can be very helpful in this scenario, as they can partner with allied health professionals like dieticians to provide holistic support to reduce sugar intake.

A little planning goes a long way

In addition to the challenges at home, families with neurodivergent children worry about dental care because bright lights, loud noises, and smells in the dental clinic can be distressing.

Some simple, pre-visit planning and open communication with the dental team can often avoid unnecessary distress, such as parents providing the dentist with information about their child’s specific sensory needs and preferences before the appointment.

“Dentists are trained to support children, irrespective of developmental stage or disability, and have a range of ways to make the dental visit more comfortable and less challenging for the neurodivergent child.”

Mihiri Silva, Paediatric Dentist, Melbourne Dental School

This can range from simple things such as reducing bright lights and loud noises in the clinic and providing comforting weighted blankets, sunglasses or noise-cancelling headphones.

Practising opening the mouth at home, reading books together about visiting the dentist and talking through simple step-by-step instructions at home may also be helpful to prepare the child for the dental visit. Social stories, which explain the details about an event such as this and the behaviours expected at the visit, can also be helpful in the preparation process.

Child wearing bright glasses at the dentist.
Bright glasses and other tools can help kids feel comfortable during check-ups. Image: Canva

Focus on prevention

While Australian Dental Association survey data suggests that many parents put off taking their child to the dentist until a problem arises, seeing a dentist both early (when the first tooth emerges) and regularly keeps the focus on prevention.

This is especially important for neurodivergent children and those with a disability because it means that children can be introduced to the sights, sounds and sensations of the dental environment at their own pace, without the urgency of treating an issue. Sometimes this may mean just visiting the practice without any examination or treatment.

And remember, expert help is available

When necessary, the dentist may refer to a Specialist Paediatric Dentist, who has additional training in providing care to children with special needs. Options such as sedation and use of anaesthesia may also be considered, especially when more complex treatment is needed.

While families with neurodivergent children may face unique challenges when it comes to their oral health, new approaches to care, focusing on individual needs, make a huge difference, and a conversation with your dentist will get this process off to a great start.


This article first appeared on Best Health Buys.

What have you or your dentist done to help your child feel more comfortable at check-ups? Leave us a comment below.

  • This is such an important topic! Navigating this terrain with my neurodiverse child has been challenging yet we have found amazing paediatric dentists along the way that worked diligently to gain trust and ease anxiety with my son. If you’re reading this and unsure about what dentist to use, research and chose wisely as one negative interaction can tarnish years of positive experiences at the dentist.

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  • We talked a lot about the dentist before our first visit, and read some kids’ books about it (over and over). I was honest that a lot of adults don’t like it and treat it as scary, but said that’s a bit silly because dentists are like doctors – you might sometimes get a small hurt (like when you get an injection) but mostly it’s fine.

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  • Ive taken my kids to a kids only dentist which has made them feel comfortable from the minute they walk in. My eldest 18 is sad she can’t still visit there any more. from a young age I have bought my kids to the dentist with me and have had them sit in the chair before I do. They have watch me get the basic checkup and clean done, so they could see and hear the noise of what happens. When they got their teeth and I took them to the kids dentist they were well prepared. The kiddie dental we go to has bright coloured pictures, tvs and interactive kids computer to play on before they are seen. All the dental technicians are kind and caring and make everyone feel welcomed.

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  • I like the tips in this article and we have practiced them all.
    We went to the dentist before the first tooth emerged. We go to the dentist every 3 months and have a team that is extemely patient. I remeber the first visit they spent 1.5 hr trying to get my daughter in the chair; my daughter is 12 years old in a couple of months time and we still can’t get her in the dentist chair ! We do use visuals & social stories. Treatment is not possible, the dentist can’t do more then counting the teeth. For treatment we look to General Anesthetics.

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  • The article says that neurodivergent is a term commonly used to describe autistic children; This is false. Neurodivergent is a tern used to describe people whose brain works different due to brain differences ; they have different responses, different challenges and different strengths. You see these possible brain differences and responses in people with ASD, ADHD learning disabilities and medical conditions (not just ASD)

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  • Does any kid like brushing their teeth. I have found teeth brushing hard at times. My daughter doesn’t enjoy doing it but we are slowly getting better with it. She tried to negotiate with me about whether she has to brush them. We do them together now and make it a fun experience for us both and this has definitely helped.

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  • Brushing and kids dont usually go hand in hand. My advice is to start them young and early so they are used to it by the time real brushing starts. Make it fun, exciting and encourage them to brush when you brush, it becomes the norm and then doesnt feel as scary!

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