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January 20, 2020

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For many people, a cruise is a holiday of a lifetime. But while a family friendly cruise is an attractive option, these trips are turning into nightmares, with many guests saying that they will never cruise again.

It is no surprise that many are opting for a family friendly cruise holiday. It’s an all-inclusive floating hotel, with incredible entertainment, activities and never-ending food at your fingertips.  After you’ve booked your cabin, there is really no need to spend extra money, which is why cruising is particularly popular with families.

Paradise

Oh…that and the kids’ club of course. A veritable paradise for children of all ages. A dedicated space where parents can leave their kids to supervised play while they escape into all the fun the ship has to offer.

Many grown-ups take up the offer of a drink package. They don’t come cheap these alcohol packages, so the mums and dads tend to let their hair down and make sure they’re drinking up the value in fruity cocktails, wine and beer.

Problems In Paradise

On the surface, a cruise holiday appears to be the most fun in the world. But scratch beneath the overflowing drinks, buffets and hairy chest contests and you’ve got some very disgruntled guests who swear they’ll never cruise ever again.

The issue is that these so-called family friendly cruise holidays are being plagued by gangs of misbehaving, renegade kids, who are running around the ships causing complete havoc.

Unruly Rogues

The issue is that kids can sign themselves in and out of kids club from around the age of 8 or 9 (depending on the cruise liner’s policies) so while parents are unwinding in the pool with four or five cocktails without a care in the world, their children are galavanting around the ship making mischief.

This problem is exacerbated during school holidays where a large number of passengers (sometimes even half) are kids. So in a cruise liner with a capacity of 3,000 people, you could have 1,500 kids on board. Of course, not all of the young ones are creating chaos and I’m sure the majority are actually respectful, good kids. But it only takes a pack or two of bad eggs to smear the whole lot with the same brush.

The stories that passengers have been sharing are shocking. And it’s not limited to a specific cruise liner. It looks like all family friendly cruise ships are plagued with the same problem.

Shockingly Disgusting Behaviour

Travellers have shared comments of kids hogging the lifts by pressing all the lift buttons (annoying!). They run around after midnight ringing doorbells and scarpering. One disgusted passenger even reported that they saw a bunch of teens sniffing salt near the lifts, chests literally bursting with bratty bravado.

Another saw a bunch of kids adding pepper to the salt shakers and one even had a bread roll hurled at their head. The horror stories continue.

family friendly cruise ship packed

Where Are The Parents?

I’m going to say it! The BIG elephant in the room here, is that the parents are nowhere to be seen. Kids should not be allowed to run around the ship without any supervision. The parents do not care! They are too busy stuffing their faces with food and drink to spare a single worry that their boorish punks are spoiling the holidays of many fellow passengers.

“Never have I seen so many rude kids who act as though they are so entitled, ” said one disgusted passenger.

“The parents need to have taken more responsibility for their young children it was absolute mayhem, they are all rude, holding up lifts, getting into life rafts, running up and down the hallways knocking on doors at all hours, throwing food from the top levels to level 5, opening the elevators without it being there bloody mayhem,” said another cruiser on a Royal Caribbean cruise.

“I question what type of parents would let their children do this & it’s a worry, because if they are into destroying things now, what will they do in the future,” yet another passenger shared.

As soon as parents step on board, it seems that they relinquish all responsibility for their kids and assume it’s up to the ship to police their children’s behaviour.

Should Security Take More Responsibility?

One passenger reported that the security aboard their 10-day cruise to the South Pacific in early January did their best to defuse the kids’ behaviour but towards the end of the cruise had just about given up policing the packs. Some passengers have reported that security are oblivious to just choose to turn a blind eye to the deplorable behaviour of the younger cruisers.

Royal Caribbean is pretty strict at enforcing a curfew of 1am on kids under 18 years old (which I support 100%), while Carnival does not have any curfew. But even a time limit doesn’t put a stop on these teens making a nuisance of themselves.

Never Again!

In fact, all the cruise groups are full of seasoned cruisers absolutely disgusted with the behaviour of these kids during sold-out Christmas and popular new year cruises and refuse to ever take a cruise over school holidays again.

“I would never take another school holiday cruise – and I have kids!” commented a cranky traveller.

Is There A Solution?

So, what’s the solution? Up the security on these cruises? Kick the parents off the cruise if their kids misbehave? Cap the numbers of kids on the cruise? Whatever the answer is, the family friendly cruise companies really need to start addressing these issues before passengers make a mass exodus off the ship.

Have you ever encountered any of these issues on a cruise before? Would this put you off cruising? Tell us in the comments below.

 

 

  • I would love to go on a cruise, however if the behaviour was out of control that would certainly ruin it

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  • Ive always wanted to do a family crusie

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  • The kids club rules need to change. No kid should be able to sign themselves out once a parent has signed them in.

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  • I would not let my kids behave like this and would be complaining long and loud if I had to put up with that.

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  • Definitely boot them off! Surely you’d agree to some kind of behaviour policy as a condition of tick purchase? And 8 or 9 is way too young to wander a ship by themselves anyway. There could be all kind of creeps on board waiting for that kind of opportunity.


    • I agree – wandering around alone on a ship at such a young age is incredibly concerning for so many reasons.

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  • The article and photo of the crowd makes it seems unappealing.

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  • That’s terrible I hate it when parents leave their children to do whatever they want and then they ruin other people’s holidays! I personally would never go on a cruise but I would be extremely peeved if any of that happened to me I would be requesting a portion of my money back that’s for sure!

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  • That’s quite terrible indeed. I wouldn’t like it at all to be around those kids. Where were the parents? I would have been so annoyed.
    I’ve never been to a cruise in my hole life, but I wold like to try. Avoiding school holidays, that’s it!! 🙂

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  • After reading this article,you might think twice about going on a cruise!

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  • Some of this is a shock to me and I find would be very worrying on such a large ship. I agree that ship days can be long ones so that is an additional challenge with smaller children.
    Perhaps there needs to be some clearer expectations onboard?

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  • Having travelled with teens on a cruise I admit they can get up to some mischief, however in there defence they are also on holiday, meeting a whole new bunch of people and trying to fill in a day on a boat. And I witnessed worse behaviour from some adults.
    Sea days can get boring (and if you get bad weather there can be more than expected) so I guess you need to expect a little havoc

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  • cruises all seem too look so crowded. would still be an experience to try one although would have to research which is best suited for our needs/wants

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  • I’m not surprised at all. I’m a high school teacher and have worked a little bit with primary kids as well.. Some parents just don’t know how to take responsibility of their children. I sit with these types of parents all the time for parent teacher interviews, I know of kids getting suspended and the parent deciding the suspension day is a good day to go to the beach as a family!! These kids are unruly usually because their parents can’t be bothered and generally stick them infront of a screen at home all the time – playing and watching whatever they want. Ofcoarse their going to misbehave..

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  • I’ve never been on a cruise but this doesn’t sound good. A lot of people make it sound tat childcare is arranged and that you can relax eat and drink indeed. I’ve 2 kids with special needs, especially my 9yr old would muck up and misbehave I’m sure. This story certainly puts me off.


    • And when I look to the over-crowded picture I would like to run away hard !

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  • If I went on a cruise it would have to be a small.one that’s not crowded

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  • That sounds crazy that kids that young can sign them selves out

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  • We just took out first Carnival cruise these school holidays, didn’t see any behaviour like this at all. My child was with me or another adult at all times though.

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  • I am about to enjoy cruise 6. My concern is the kids clubs. Of the 2 cruises my kids have been on, I have never left my kids in them. The club I toured on Princess cruise lines looked awful and didn’t offer much organised play for the 3-7 yr old’s. Kids were left to their own devices.
    I think if parents want a holiday where they don’t have to look after their kids… well they should save their money.

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  • I have a very simple solution – don’t go on the cruise in the first place.
    Why anybody thinks they can relinquish the care of their children to others while they drink themselves stupid is beyond me.
    From what I have seen of those who go cruising – all they want to do is eat, drink, and eat.
    That’s not what I want from life, so I won’t be going cruising any time soon.

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  • I can only imagine the chaos on a spot like this


    • It looks crazy chaotic and overcrowded indeed ! If you don’t have an anxiety disorder yet you could get one, lol !

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