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You can’t escape them; their eyes are watching your every move!

Whether we’re talking on the phone, making their school lunches, driving the car – there they are soaking up everything we say and do.

As parents, grandparents, uncles, aunties, teachers and role models, we need to be mindful about the message our actions and words are sending to the children in our care.

Research shows that children who grow up in an active household are much more likely to continue exercising throughout their lifetime.

With Australia’s obesity rate continuing to grow at an alarming rate, regular activity during early childhood not only impacts on immediate health outcomes but also form good foundations for later years.

As role models, we have a wonderful opportunity – and responsibility – to empower children in our care to make healthy choices, and the most effective way that to do that is to lead by example. Monkey see, monkey do!

Put simply, if children see you being physically active, and enjoying yourself in the process, chances are they will want to be active too.

One thing I have learnt while running Livelyhood dance programs is that children love to share the experience with others, especially their role models. Being active together not only ensures a healthy future for your family but also forms a powerful bond that lasts a lifetime.

As the ancient proverb says, ‘Great acts are made up of small deeds’. Don’t push the panic button, just KISS (Keep it Simple Silly!).

This can be as simple as walking to the farmers markets, growing and cooking your own food, going to the park as a family, walking the dog, riding your bikes to the shops, or even putting on some music in the morning to have a dance – every little bit makes a big difference in a child’s life.

The 2004 Australia’s Physical Activity Recommendations for Children suggest that children aged 5-18 years need a minimum of 60 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity every day.

Here are some great ideas to get you on your way:

  • Play sport as a family – kick around a soccer ball after school, play a game of backyard cricket, jump around in the pool, or create an obstacle course
  • Organise an activity party – schedule a bowling party, take the kids to a climbing wall, or book a dancing or sports party. For ideas, see Livelyhood’s children’s dancing parties – www.livelyhood.com.au/parties
  • Explore the great outdoors – take a long walk along the beach, visit a National Park, or go to a playground in a nearby suburb
  • Get the kids involved – ask them to choose an activity for the day or week. Make sure you remain excited and passionate about the activity they choose!
  • Plan a family disco – every Friday night a friend of mine puts up a disco ball so the whole family can have their own private party. Love this idea!

At the end of the day, actions speak louder than words. Take the first steps today to build a healthier future for our children and us!

Healthy, Active, Happy: That’s the Livelyhood way of Living!

  • This is one thing that we have really been working on in our house – getting active and out there!

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  • So so true!
    It’s amazing the things our son comes up with or the things he says even!
    I think I do need to be more “active” outdoors … and hopefully convince him to accompany on some walks out in the fresh air and sunshine.

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  • This is soo true
    I realised it when my lill one started copying me.

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  • Wow i never thought of the monkey see monkey do attitude in terms of exercise…..which i feel like slapping myself in the forehead and saying durr now. My girl is a sponge in all other aspects so of course it would make sense that she will take on my attitude when it comes to exercise. My attitude will change from this day forward….thank you Fiona and Mouths Of Mums xo

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  • my almost 2 year old amazes me everyday with what she learns from watching our whole family…not going to lie theres definately somethings i wish she hadnt picked up! 🙂

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  • My toddler amazed me when he started being able to move around and dance. He has all sorts of crazy dance moves based on push ups and pilates stretches he’s watched me do! Its so true they copy everything you do.

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  • My 11 month old already copies everything! Thanx for the advice! It makes sense!

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  • I can see how much my little girl copies her big sister already and she’s not even 2 yet!

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  • I think, I know a few coffee tables that this article should happen to be left on 🙂

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  • Once one kid does something the other copies. They are sponges

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  • I hope to instil many positive things in my children now so they can lead happy, healthy and fulfilled lives. Leading by example is the best way to do this, I just hope it is enough.

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  • Very true, my 3 and ½ year old girl copy not just me, but her grand ma, grand pa, childcare teachers and so on. She absorbs everything in and remembers for long time too! She even starts to respond to questions not even directed at her. That’s just shows kids are listening and watching everything we do and say. Have to be very mindful.

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  • It is so true how the kids watch everything! Fresh air is so good for them and us!

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  • My 21month old just absorbes everything at the moment. Good and bad, but mostly good. He is already counting upto 10! Your article is very insightful. Thankyou for a good read

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  • So true of the mirroring of us. Love the illustration good impact. My kids love doing stuff as they see me never sitting down always on the go. Good point and well made.

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  • Kids are watching everything and its so important to lead by example. Its parenting easier if the kids see you doing the right thing. We have outside play every afternoon and the kids love it. its very important the kids are active and they enjoy it too. Backyard cricket and going for bike ridrs are my kids fav activutes 🙂

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  • We often go outside they are both very young atm but when hanging out washing they come, we go for walks and etc. Cant wait till older so can have bikes each and getting swings, trampoline and all th outside stuff this xmas as we sre trying to encourage being outside in the fresh air and etc at a young age so as they grow they enjoy it. Seems these days its all about tv, tablets, ipads and game consoles with a lot of kids.

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  • such a true article. Kids are like sponges!

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  • we love being outside and so do kids! we will try and get outside in the fresh air and to the farm when possible

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  • very true article. Children learn so much just by watching us. We make it a point to regularly go to the park, ride a bicycle , go for a walk – and kids love it too…

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