I know for a fact that the adoption process through court is not a quick process. In Aust. the Mother has a certain length of time during which she can change her decision and take her baby/babies home with her. I wonder how old the twins were when they went to live with Ali and Michael.

I hope the twins ended up in a happy loving family.

so sad all round , but Adopting is a huge step and those 2 boys are now parentless yet again. I hope they get adopted out again really soon and live a full and loving life!

Not a choice I could make families are what you create not what DNA they are made up of, Sounds like these poor boys would be better off in the long run with a Mum who could love them freely

Very sad and hard decision. I know of a foster parent who were infertile and had 2 girls under a guardianship order and gave up o them when they got pregnant and their own son was born. Adopting/fostering because of infertility and filling your own personally hole/gap is just a doubtful motive and should always be thoroughly investigated.

I could not have given them back but I love kids and treat all kids as they are my own. It actually sounded like post natal depression

I would hate to be in that situation, hopefully those beautiful boys (I know not the ones pictured) found a loving family. I do feel for the dad who loved and bonded with the babes, but it’s probabbly better this way for everybody.

That’s tough to do

Maybe for the better if the mother could not bond, could had been her hormones too. Doctors are wrong sometimes as I was told I would be unable to have children. I have 6 living children that says wrong plus some angel babies too.

Better for them to be with someone who loves and wants them.

They did right by sending them back because she wont be able to give them that love and care which they deserve.

I feel sorry for the father who’d bonded with the babies.

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  • • mom290396 replied
    • 26 Jun 2019 , 11:16 pm

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  Me too! How heart breaking for him. Also sad for his wife too that she couldn’t bond like him

As sad as it is, it’s better they were given the chance to be adopted by someone who will love them like their own rather than someone who couldn’t bond with them. Incredible that she is pregnant with her second after being told she’s infertile. It sure shows that not every diagnosis is correct.

Poor woman. But if she didn’t feel a bond with them and she was actually having bad thoughts, probably it was the best solution. Very hard but maybe the best for everyone. 🙁

Oh no that’s terrible I hope that these baby twins will be adopted and loved because that’s what they deserve.

Those poor babies 🙁