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A first-time-mum has chosen to educate, rather than retaliate, against keyboard warriors who constantly shame her over the amount her eight-month-old baby eats.

Lauren Young and her baby daughter Lilah have a following of more than 170,000 on TikTok, where the pair share everyday life videos, as well as baby led weaning meals. Lauren serves up delectable dishes to Lilah, including potato curry, turkey gnocchi and Sunday roast, complete with Yorkshire pudding.

But the amount of food on the baby’s plate has raised the ire of some followers. One writing: “That’s far too much food for a child that age.”

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Baby led weaning method

Lauren, taking the high ground, chooses to educate those who don’t understand how her daughter feeds.

“We always serve her more rather than less just in case any ends up on the floor,” Lauren explains. “And because she feeds herself, she only eats as much as she wants to. She’s just got a good appetite.”

Lauren chose to start Lilah on solids using the baby led weaning method. This means going straight into finger foods, rather than feeding babies puree and mashed meals. Babies lead their own weaning process by feeding themselves right from the start of their solids journey.

Eight Month Old Baby Led Weaning

Another follower took exception to little Lilah feeding herself, rather than being fed by her mum. “You should feed her. She’s too small to eat on her own. It’s frustrating for her. Please feed her.”

Again, Lauren explained that Lilah is quite comfortable controlling her own mealtimes. “She’s been feeding herself since we started baby led weaning at six months and we’ve never had to help her. Feeding herself isn’t frustrating for her at all and it actually helps develop motor skills. She has so much fun at mealtimes. And because she feeds herself it helps regulate appetite control.”

We love that this mum and bub combo choose to take the high ground and inform rather than inflame the situation. Bravo!

Did you try baby led weaning with your baby? 

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  • There will always be those that love to judge. It makes them feel better about their own failings

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  • This is amazing! I wish my 7 month old was this keen. I think baby led weaning is our next step. He refuses to eat puree food but has loved chunks of fruit, and well cooked steak to suck on!

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  • It’s working for them, not any ones else’s business

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  • As long as its working for them. I don’t follow that bwl way.

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  • I support this mum.
    Every child is different and every parenting style is different.
    My children are polar opposites when it comes to food intake and feeding themselves.

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  • I didn’t but good on her. That’s impressive.

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  • Everyone has their own ways and different generations are always trying something new – if it works for you, then so be it.

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  • If she’s hungry then feed her. Nature knows best.

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  • If I had known about child lead weaning I probably would have tried it. It seems so much easier and makes sense.

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  • It looks like she loves feeding herself. If my children ate that well when they were young I would have been proud.

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  • No problem my daughters is the same always ate everything we do and like a adult, shes a healthy weight and size.

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  • My son used to eat as much as a grown man 3 times a day, have endless snacks and a full bottle of milk right after each meal. He even went so far as to eat till he was sick and then eat some more. He was so hungry that formula and purée weren’t enough to fill him, so I was told to put him on purée at 3 months old.

    My boy had excessive growth and at seven months old was the size of a one year old. He literally doubled in size each year for four years. Excessive growth meant a huge appetite. Good on her for doing things her own way.

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  • Good on this mum for standing up for herself and now she’s parenting her child.

    It’s no one else’s business anyway!! Really dislike people on social media who comment like this one did and say it’s too much food and it’s frustrating so feed the baby – go away if you don’t agree! It’s not ur child. Don’t agree then move on. And don’t comment and don’t assume. Does my head in why people choose to comment when they r strangers and don’t know nothing!

    Well done this mum. Do what you feel and know is right for ur bub.

    And yes ive done BLW – it’s great for introducing new foods, motor skills, sensory skills and with my kids has made them wider eaters as they get older.

    But each time their own. And stop judging others! We’re all doing our best for our kids. If u don’t agree that’s ok – but no need to make comments and carry on. Geez.
    Parenting is hard enough without social media judging/commenting/knowing nothing.

    Each to their own and live and let live. Simple concepts!

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  • He’s only 8 months old. Back off people!

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  • I feel that babies stop eating when they are full. There is no way that baby could physically put all that food in her tummy but she may enjoy trying different bits of food, taking a bite then trying something else. People need to let each parent do as they please & realise there usually isnt a “right” & “wrong” way

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  • I never heard of this before and I don’t know of anyone else who’s heard of it either. I love that this Mum doesn’t take offence or get upset if people don’t agree with her methods too.

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  • I hadn’t heard of it when my babies were little although my nephews and friends babies have all done it recently and seems to work.

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  • No I didn’t and my kids are happy eater now.

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  • No, I didn’t. But I do understand she’s giving her baby options to eat what she wants and as much as she wants.

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  • Well done, Mum and bub! I do baby led weaning, but have the opposite- he will not eat much at all (except for pasta, but who doesn’t devour that?) but he will eat when he wants.

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