For a little while now I’ve noticed that I am growing apart from some friends. It’s like I don’t even know them anymore and they don’t know me. I am suddenly the bad person for not having enough time for them. I have 2 kids now not just one and they just do not seem to understand that it isn’t as easy to get them both ready and happy (specially at the same time) and just head out to wherever and stay for hours at a time. No.1 was a very easy baby who would sleep anywhere and never had an issue, but now he is 2 and tantrums gallore and No.2 is a fussy, cranky, windy baby so it is just not that easy. Even getting time to call people is hard and Facebook and emails seem a little too impersonal. I realise that the majority of this is my fault but I do feel that if they just thought about it for a minute they would see it;s not on purpose.
Sorry for the rant, but it does feel good to get it out there.
Posted by ange s, 29th May 2013