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July 9, 2025

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Screen time is impacting our youth, but is it all bad? We spoke to a psychologist to find out how we can harness the benefits of screen time while minimising the risks.

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Katrina Langhorn is a registered psychologist and qualified teacher with over twenty years of experience working with children and parents. With experience in both public and private practice, schools, hospitals and a corrections facility, she specialises in evidence-based treatment. A respected educator and keynote speaker, she regularly shares her expertise across Australia and is the author of The Challenge Journal. Katrina is also the Clinical Director of AT Full Potential.

A boy on a sofa using his iPad.
Screen time has become a part of life, but how much is too much? Image: Canva

Is screen time all bad?

Research has shown that there are benefits to screen time, like keeping up with current trends, improving digital literacy in an ever-evolving technology world, and most importantly, staying connected with peers.

However, there can also be negative consequences like the amount of time spent on screens, the harmful type of media being consumed and even addictive behaviours. Research has further shown that excessive screen time for youth can have significant impacts on their physical, cognitive and emotional regulation.

Developmental impacts

The timing of screen use can also impact sleep patterns. This is because devices like iPads, iPhones, and computers emit blue light that disrupts melatonin production, our body’s natural sleep hormone. There are also physical implications like eye strain, tech neck and lack of exercise, due to many screen time positions being sedentary and promoting poor posture.

Two boys gaming on computers at a desk.
Excessive screen time is linked to developmental issues. Image: Canva

The impact on social and emotional development is particularly pertinent for children under three, as this is a period of rapid growth. As such, excessive screen time can lead to missed opportunities for crucial learning and interaction.

The volume of content consumed on the screen

You know what it is like as an adult. You click on Instagram or TikTok for a quick scroll, and an hour later, you realise your toast is cold and you are late for school pickup!

Social media is designed to engage us, so it should come as no surprise that our kids want to spend so much of their time using it!

The risk of excessive social media use 

The link between social media use and youth mental health has emerged as one of the most urgent and hotly debated issues in public health and policy today. 

Mission Australia recently surveyed almost 17,500 young people aged 15-19 and found that 97% of them use social media every day. Moderate social media use, defined as one to three hours daily, was associated with better mental health outcomes compared to high social media use, which is characterised by over three hours a day and represents approximately 38% of young people.

Teenage girl on her phone while studying at a desk.
97% of teenagers aged 15-19 use social media daily. Image: Canva

The youth in the higher social media use range reported worse mental health, wellbeing and psychological distress, like negative feelings concerning the future, lack of control over their lives and feeling lonely.

This 2024 Youth Survey found that gender-diverse, female and Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander young people were more likely to be in this high social media user range and more likely to report negative mental health impacts.

According to a report from youth mental health research and advocacy organisation Orygen, the findings suggest moderation may be crucial to healthy social media use and not all young people are negatively affected by social media. 

Boy taking a selfie with his smartphone.
But not all young people are negatively affected by social media. Image: Canva

Dr. Louise La Sala, lead author and Orygen research fellow said that these findings challenge the belief that all social media use is harmful, noting that moderate users often reported better or similar wellbeing compared to low users, including greater hope, control, social connection and physical participation in exercise through sports. The report also found that social media was being used by young people for support, connection and belonging as well as for mental health support when it was not able to be accessed elsewhere.

However, we are all too aware of the more harmful aspects of these platforms, including algorithm-driven manipulation and addictive design features such as streaks, constant alerts and endless scrolling, which encourage compulsive use, as well as increasing exposure to graphic and violent online content.

Changing laws 

As public discourse intensifies around the idea of limiting social media access for under-16s, this report explores the intricate relationship between youth mental health, well-being and social media engagement.

Australia is set to implement a ban on social media use for individuals under 16 (including platforms like TikTok, Snapchat and Instagram) starting in December. And some schools have already implemented total mobile phone bans on-site.

The author and research fellow recommended that the ban should be part of a broader strategy, and not the final measure, in protecting all users on social media, no matter how old they are. 

Vicarious trauma

The adverse effects of vicarious trauma are tied to repeated exposure to distressing material, with screen time serving as a common channel for such exposure.

Research shows this can negatively affect a young person’s anxiety and emotional dysregulation. No one should be exposed to harmful content, especially young people. The ban is a move in the right direction, but there is still more we need to do, and the discussion shouldn’t end here.

Unhappy teenage boy on his phone in the dark.
Vicarious trauma is the result of exposure to distressing material. Image: Canva

Given the widespread use of social media among young people, it’s essential to equip them with the skills for safe navigation, while shaping policies and platform designs that promote healthy digital engagement, discernment and resilience.

I heard a speech delivered by the eSafety Commissioner Julie Inman Grant at the National Press Club in Canberra who recently said, “The Australian Government’s Social Media Minimum Age law is the first of its kind to pass anywhere in the world, with overwhelming support across the Parliament and the states”. However, she prefers to call this a social media access ‘delay’ rather than a ban. Delaying youth access to social media until they have developed better executive functioning skills like analysing information and critical reasoning.

The government is expecting a report by the end of this month on technologies for verifying the ages of all users on social media and adult websites. This impending report will help determine which platforms the measures will apply to and which verification technology will be implemented ahead of the ban taking effect on 10 December 2025.

How do I know if my child is addicted to screens?

When everyday activities like getting up, getting ready or going to school start to be disrupted, it may be a sign to look for emotional responses and signs of dependence. These include cravings, needing more screen time to feel good, difficulty stopping device use or irritability when not using screens.

Ask yourself if your child shows signs of the following:

  • Frequently preoccupied with thoughts about using technology or planning its use
  • Feeling a growing compulsion to use technology more frequently
  • Turning to technology as a way to escape or avoid problems
  • Making unsuccessful attempts to reduce technology use
  • Feeling anxious or uneasy when technology isn’t available
  • Using technology to the extent that it interferes with school or home

In a four-year study in America, addictive use of screens has been associated with increased mental health risks, including anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts or behaviours.

Addictive screen use may be a sign that your child is facing emotional challenges. Instead of responding with punishment or shame, try to approach the situation with empathy and curiosity. Ask open-ended questions such as, “What do you get out of being online?” or “When do you feel the strongest urge to be on your phone?”

Mother tries to take an iPad off her teenage daughter.
Learn to spot the signs of youth screen addiction. Image: Canva

Spending more time on screens can raise the risk of children or teens developing addictive behaviours and mental health challenges. Children are particularly vulnerable because their brains are still being consolidated, especially in areas related to delayed gratification and self-regulation. Additionally, many platforms have a deliberate design feature to be addictive.

Prevention may be easier than treatment, so set time limits, screen-free zones and monitor. If you think your child may be becoming addicted to screens, seek professional help as early as possible.

What can adults and parents do?

The Orygen report recommends enhancing digital literacy so that when the ban takes effect, 14- and 15-year-olds are better prepared to navigate social media safely when they do gain access. This is a chance for parents to begin talking with their children about the upcoming changes.

The eSafety Commissioner website has guidance to support these conversations, including resources on VPNs, circumvention tools and step-by-step instructions for downloading account data before profiles are closed.

Parents can also introduce screen-free times, like during meals and on driving journeys. They can also create screen-free zones like bedrooms and bathrooms.

As a mother myself, I am not about casting blame, we can all strive to:

  • Set time limits and model this yourself with your own devices
  • Encourage a healthy balance of offline activities, especially with things you can do together!
  • Monitor the content your child is consuming and keep the communication lines open 

This article first appeared on Best Health Buys.

What steps do you take to moderate your kids’ screen time? Leave us a comment below.

  • This is such a helpful article. I have three boys who two of them have phones. It has been hard to navigate and ensure they stay safe and healthy. I agree with the tips and communicating helps me so much keep boundaries

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  • Good read article. There is a lot of tech becoming more prevalent to our youth at younger ages it’s so hard finding the right balance

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  • Thanks for sharing this article which has a lot of truth in it. I think it’s quite hard to find the right balance since electronic devices have become such part of our life and work space all around the world. I grew up without devices and had in fact no phone till I was in my forties !

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  • We who barely had access to our parent’s windows 98 and who’s experience grew from playing with ‘paint’, ‘word’ and ‘solitaire’ are raising the first generation of humans that use social media technology every day. And often using it as a pacifier myself admittedly, have created the rod for my own back. My daughter is only five and already experiences addiction tendencies towards her tablet. Take it off her and just see her reaction. It speaks for itself. We get by with prevention methods mentioned here in this very informative article. It’s absolutely easier to implement than just plain removing it.
    I appreciate that the government will be changing laws to meet new ways of life for families. It’s too late to turn back to the good old days. We have to adapt.

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  • I’ve got a 2 month old and have decided he won’t have screen time until 2 years of age as I know his development right now is fast and communication is vital right now.

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  • It’s such a tough balance. There are some great apps for education and so many benefits too. So very important to lead by example and disconnect too.

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  • The best way we can teach our children to limit screen time, is by doing it ourselves and setting the example. The same as going out into nature and walking in the sun – we have to be doing this ourselves so that our children will want to do it too. All the laws in the world won’t stop screen time as quickly as us parents showing children it isn’t necessary to be on the screen all day and every day.

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  • Yes screen time is a thing but how can we stop it well we can try and limit there time but now with School work and homework mostly done on Computer more screen time there also
    and they use them at school too so its now a thing that we have to get hold of

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  • As a mum of two girls, one with autism and one with anxiety, screen time balance is vital. I set clear screen-free routines, model healthy habits, and focus on connection. It is not about banning screens — it is about building real-world resilience, curiosity, and conversation alongside the tech.

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  • We have four teenagers and managed to keep them off social media until about 16 years old.
    They knew we didn’t agree with them having them and we kept them busy with sports and activities so they never really missed what they didn’t have. Sadly we caved and let them have it because they were feeling left out of group chats and organisation of activities. They are good with it but I do regret not finding another option as they tend to check all day long for messages etc.

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  • The very best step we take in limiting screen time is by being good role models and examples. We limit our consumption of screen time and our use of devices and it does indeed have an impact. Way too many hours can pass by people watching screens and using devices if it is not kept in check. Healthy balance in all things is so important.

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  • I recently removed the ipads from my 4&2 year olds hand have already seen such a massive improvement. They are happier and listen more. Its good for kids to feel bored and not to shove a screen in front of their faces just to give yourself a break! Hopefully we can keep this up!

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  • Wow BellaB, I’m impressed that you were able to keep even your 17 year old off social media !! That is a huge win indeed ! I am curious, can you share with us how you did that ?
    We used Kaspersky with one of our kids and it led to huge battles and she would use devices from other people to watch what ever she wanted

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  • My sister is a psychologist and really stresses how important it is to not only limit kids screen time, but to limit how much you use technology in front of them. They pick up how much joy and attention our phones give. Our guy is still only little so it’s easier to limit, but I’ll be making sure no personal devices for a long time. My sister says attention span and self regulation has been severely affected in kids. They can’t just sit and be, they need the distraction of devices

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  • I limit screen time in my house to ensure my child isn’t on it always. We tend to allow it in the evenings when I am preparing dinner. I try to organise outdoor activities during the day – whether permitted of course. It’s important kids have a balance. I also put locks on certain apps eliminating certain searches of shows etc, I think this is very important.

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  • We limited screen time with our kids when they were younger, my eldest two are now nearly 20 and 21 years old and I don’t interfere anymore, I only ask them to put they phones away when we’re sitting at the dinner table together.
    Our youngest is 11 year old and has Down syndrome; she loves to watch video’s on YouTubeKids, often singing along, memorising whole texts (whilst memory is her weakness) and acting it out on the trampoline; because this has a positive impact on her speech and drama skills, I see the iPad use not so negative. We have blocked all social media

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  • We limit screen time in our household because it is important to have balance in life and be free of screens and devices. We do not use our phones when out and it is forbidden at restaurants and similar places. It is so important and respectful to be present for each other and not be controlled by devices.

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  • It is really hard to keep kids off screens when so much of their schoolwork and homework is screen based. I have managed to keep my kids – even the 17 year old – off social media, and I think that’s a huge win. I would like them to spend less time on screens though.

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  • I have been using the “screen time” function on my apply family account. I find this is a great way to limit the amount of screen time my kids can have daily. Its an easy set and forget option and I don’t have to constantly mess around with the settings. I have it shut off at 7:30 on school nights to make sure they aren’t up all night watching movies or playing games. They have a bit more freedom on weekends but still limits to ensure it isn’t excessive

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  • Great visibility fo a very controversial topic. It is good to see that this is an issue getting light by the Australian government and it will be interesting to see the results if it is implemented in December. Many young people that are not given access to a phone and social media are then teased, putting parents in a really challenging position.

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