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That big day of love is upon us once again! Valentine’s Day isn’t just for us ladies. It’s time to show your partner just how much they mean to you.

This year, ditch the chocolates, fancy dinners or lingerie and try something a bit different. The extra effort will make it a special day you both remember for some time to come.

1. Go Old School!

Remember how thrilling and exciting it was back in High School when you used to go parking at lover’s lane? How about making out at the movies? Plan a special date night to bring on those exhilarating moments. And, now that you are parents, you probably really do have a curfew of 10 or 11 pm to relieve that babysitter.

2. Get Out the Skates!

Ice skating is such a simple activity but can be so romantic. Take turns showing each other your best moves and then glide around the rink arm in arm. Make sure to bring some hot chocolate and a special treat to share.

3. Create a One of a Kind Keepsake!

After being together for a while, we tend to lose sight of all those reasons we fell in love with our spouse in the first place. Make him a special book listing all of his assets (Lord knows we focus on his shortcomings often enough). You could also include a re-cap of your first date, the moment you knew you wanted to spend your life with him, how you felt when you found out you were pregnant, etc. Just make him feel good about being him. It will also remind you of what a lucky lady you are!

 

 

4. Play Truth or Dare!

Think you know everything there is to know about your partner? I bet he is holding out a few secrets. Find out everything (or laugh at him completing hilarious dares). But, remember, you will be vulnerable too! Make the truths sexy and the dares funny. Truth questions could include: “What is the most off-limits place you would ever consider making love?” or “What is the body part about your mate that turns you on the most?” Dares could include: Put a pair of your partner’s underwear on your head and dirty dance for 3 minutes or Apply lipstick to your partner without using your hands. Get lustful, get silly, have fun.

5. Create Your Own Tradition!

You know each other best. Maybe it’s breakfast in bed, a picnic in the park or attending a sporting event. Whatever you two enjoy doing as a couple, go out and do it. Plan to make it a yearly tradition every Valentine’s Day.

And remember, showing each other how much you care is for every day, not just February 14th.

What is your favourite thing to do on Valentine’s Day? Do you have any suggestions to add to the list above? SHARE with us in the comments below.

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  • Do you have any suggestions to add to the list above? SHARE with us in the comments below.
    I sure do and here goes:

    REAL STORIES

    Valentine’s Day NOT just for partner lovers.

    Hi everyone,
    With Valentine’s Day fast approaching I would just like to suggest this Valentine’s to share the LoVe and I do not mean simply between partners. I would like all to celebrate by sharing the LoVe with Family, Friends and the Community. Try to do a good deed, visit a lonely person, spend some special time with the children, have a family get together and enjoy a lovely meal, visit a nursing home, the list is endless. There are so many single folks out there and Valentine’s seems to focus on couples, so my wish goes out to YOU singles, embrace your freedom and enjoy yourself. Single gals, organise a day out shopping (perhaps) with your single friends and enjoy a coffee or meal. Guys grab all your single mates and (perhaps) go fishing. Now if you say BUT all my friends are in relationships, search to see if there is a reverse Valentine’s in your area/or celebrations for singles on Valentine’s Day in your area.
    Below is a you tube clip link that will have you in stitches.

    Reverse-Valentine’s Day 2012 – YouTube
    Video for reverse valentine’s day▶ 1:48▶ 1:48
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y10leCDstOM
    Feb 13, 2012 – Uploaded by Datelesswonders
    “It’s the most fun you can have by yourself!” – David Hoh.

    So singles have fun with other singles or have a reverse Valentine’s on the 14th or have a day full of good deeds to all, but most importantly LoVe yourself and enjoy your day.

    Now if I may I would like to share with you my lead up to Valentine’s. At Christmas I gave to the “Wishing Tree” also gave food and gifts to a local place that provides a range of culturally appropriate services for people in our communities experiencing domestic violence and homelessness. I decided that instead of just helping at Christmas that this year I would like to help throughout the year as well ..so when I see needed food on special (sometimes) 1/2 price I purchase it and put it aside to create a gift hamper for the needy. At present I have a box of Vita Brits, 3 boxes of gluten free cranberry wild rice and a bottle of petrochemical and paraben free children’s body wash that I will take over to the emergency accommodation to use for mum’s and children that have fled domestic violence etc. I am hoping to do the hamper thing at different times through the year and just knowing that a child and battered parent receives some extra help and love is thanks enough for me.

    So to conclude I am sending all my LoVe and wishes to all, young, old, all skin coloured, all religions and races, in general EVERYONE, have a wonderful, fun and fulfilling Valentine’s Day and year.

    Love and Light
    cherz.

    Posted by cherz, 31st January 2015

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  • I like just to reminded of the love we share and have just us time, these things get pushed back with kids

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  • These tips are great but it shouldn’t just focus on a romantic partner/spouse. Spending time with friends and family and having special fun times is just as LOVEly. Exchange gifts just the same way or express your love for them and how special they are to you on Valentines Day.

    • Couldn’t agree more Ella12. Hope you read my Real Story.

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  • great tips, i like the traditional way as you have mentioned

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  • I like the idea, as I get older, of creating our own tradition. Have to get onto that… quickly!

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  • this hurts especially around this time of year I hope I find a new love this year

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  • Great ideas I love the ideas of Being old School an bringing back memories..

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