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For most grandparents, looking after their grandchildren is done for the pure joy – but it also seems it may help nan and pop live longer!

Most parents are grappling with the increasing cost of childcare, so asking their own parents to look after the grandchildren is becoming more and more common. And if you needed an extra nudge to convince your parents that looking after the grandkids is beneficial, this might be it!

The Berlin Aging Study, which looked at the mental and physical health of more than 500 people aged between 70 and 103 years old, compared grandparents who provided occasional childcare with those who didn’t, as well as older adults who didn’t have kids or grandchildren, but who provided care for others in their social network.

What they discovered at the end of the 20 year study was that half of the grandparents who took care of their grandchildren were still alive 10 years after the first interview in 1990. It was the same for those who didn’t have grandchildren, but who supported their children with things like housework. And here’s the clincher – about half of those who didn’t care for their grandchildren or others died within five years.

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“But helping shouldn’t be misunderstood as a panacea for a longer life,” explained Ralph Hertwig, Director of the Center for Adaptive Rationality at the Max Planck Institute for Human Development. “A moderate level of caregiving involvement does seem to have positive effects on health. But previous studies have shown that more intense involvement causes stress, which has negative effects on physical and mental health,” says Hertwig.

Ronan Factora, M.D., of Cleveland Clinic, which didn’t take part in the study, said there are a few reasons why their are health benefits for seniors who are caregivers.

“We know that as you age, you want to stay physically active; you want to stay socially engaged; you want to be cognitively stimulated; and all those things allow you to age well,” said Dr. Factora.

“There is a link between providing this care and reducing stress and we know the relationship between stress and higher risk of dying,” said Dr. Factora. “If providing care to grandchildren and others in need is one way that can actually reduce stress, then these activities should be of benefit to folks who are grandparents and provide this care to their grandkids.”

Do you look after your grandkids? Or do you parents look after your kids? Do you see the benefits? Let us know in the comments below. 

  • My Mum travels 3 hours to help babysit our kids when I need someone to watch them. She’s an absolute gem.

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  • I can totally imagine the positive effect of caring for family members.
    Our family lives in Europe, so sadly no grandparents nearby

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  • It’s not a possible scenario for me. My closest grandchildren and great-grandson live 3 hour drive away. Interesting study though


    • Aw bless, do you miss it tessie ?

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  • Haha interesting! I don’t have grandkids yet so I’ll have to take your word for it.

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  • Maybe my MIL should read this…

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  • Can be alot of hard work as well.

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  • I have heard that being around the young will keep you younger. However, constantly picking up and down of the younger children doesn’t auger too well for a bad back.


    • Aw bless, a bad back is limiting indeed

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  • I may have to forward this onto my MIL hehe

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  • I love looking after my grandson :)

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  • My parents adore my children, not so close with the in laws

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  • None of my kids have had children yet and im really not sure that I will get to have grandchildren

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  • The grandparent/grandchild relationship is such a special one. If the grandparents are able to do it, then it’s a win-win for all, the children grow up with some very special memories.

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  • My parents look after my boys regularly and they have an amazing relationship. It’s wonderful to see the love my kids have for them and my parents for my boys.


    • Aw that is sweet ! Sounds the special bond is just as important for your children as for your parents

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  • I wish I lived closed enough to my grandkids to be able to do this. I’m very much saddened at how much I’m missing out on

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  • I wish I had my parents or in-laws living close enough that they could help look after my kids occasionally.

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  • Something to look forward to for future? Grandkids to help us live longer?

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  • Poor mum has her daughter and grandson living with her! But I can see the benefits for her!

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  • I am so great full that I have my parents and my partners mum around to help with the kids. It’s such a special time in their life and the kids just adore their grandparents xx


    • Wonderful when there’s such a special bond !

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  • My Grandchildren are adults now and my Great Grandson (who is one) lives a 3 hour drive away so it’s not possible. I do miss spending time with them and more so since my late husband passed away. I have my dog who needs special care and she keeps me going.


    • I can imagine that is hard Tessie, glad your dog keeps you going !

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  • I’m not even nearly there yet but my son did spend a lot of time with his Nana for mixed benefits.

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