A distraught dad is convinced his girlfriend is going to break up with him, after he admitted he has no feelings towards their newborn son.
The young dad says he went through something similar after the couple had their first child, their daughter, who is now three-years-old.
“I love the hell out of my daughter,” he says. “We were 18 and 19 when we had her, and it was harder on me because my parents kicked me out while hers were supportive and loving towards us. It takes me a while to develop feelings towards anybody. I don’t understand why, but it does it only took me a couple of weeks to start feeling love towards our daughter and I didn’t neglect her or mistreat her, I just didn’t feel anything.”
Now that the couple has welcomed their newborn son, the dad says he’s experiencing the same lack of emotion that he did with his daughter. And after confessing to his girlfriend, he fears their relationship may be over.
“I don’t feel any connection to him like I did my daughter, I felt a spark with us. I don’t feel that with my son though he’s two weeks and I still feel nothing and I never told my girlfriend this because I didn’t want her to feel bad.
“But I ended up telling her last night because I don’t feel any connection to him, I care about him I’m just not sure if I love him yet. She went off on me talking about what type of man doesn’t love his kids and stuff like that and this might me make me an a**hole but I said it took me three months into dating to feel something towards her.”
He says he tried to apologise to his girlfriend but she now hates him.
“She’s most likely gonna break up with me because why be with someone you hate.”
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