A confused mum is trying to navigate a sensitive situation with her teen daughter, who is claiming she’s autistic after making a new group of friends.
The mum says her 15-year-old daughter is ‘well-adjusted and socially adept’, doing everything from organising her own birthday parties, excelling in the school debate team and the Feminist Roundtable Club – where she organised a fundraiser.
“I’m beyond proud of her,” the mum explained. “She is an incredible person and I truly feel the sky is the limit for her.
“However, she has recently made a friend group who I believe is not great for her. Three people, two are non-binary and one girl, and all of them claim to be autistic. I guess this has rubbed off on my daughter because now she is also claiming to be autistic.
“My sister is following her on TikTok and I guess she posts ‘stimming’ videos and other things. She has given me zero evidence before this point to even entertain the notion that she is autistic. I truly never even considered it until she met these friends. This leads me to believe it is made up.”
The concerned mum thinks her daughter’s new friends are behind her ‘self-diagnosis’.
“I have noticed that these friends are causing her to distance herself from her other friends that encouraged a more healthy lifestyle – friends she met in feminist roundtable for example who I really liked.
“She does not really do anything anymore but sit in her room and make videos with these friends about autism. It’s really strange and has me feeling pretty bad.”
The situation recently came to a head when the mum decided to call out her daughter, in front of her friends.
“The other day her and her friends were in the kitchen and my daughter said something along the lines of, ‘She wouldn’t understand because she isn’t autistic’ about a classmate.
“I calmly stated after she said this that she is not autistic either, has self diagnosed, and shouldn’t patronise people by claiming that she is autistic as it is inappropriate to people who actually struggle. She got furious and stomped up to her room. Her friends followed. She’s not talking to me anymore.”
Now the mum wants to know if she was in the wrong for ‘calling out’ her daughter.
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